I don't know what to do. . . i've known him all my life and I thought I liked him. . . but I don't know if I really do. I didn't think being with him would feel as weird as it does. Advice please?
2006-12-22 06:42:40 · 10 answers · asked by Cardinals Rock! 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
If it feels weird to be with him as you say then maybe there is a reason for this. It may be that your heart is trying to tell you something and that you might be better off not being around him at all. Too many people don't listen to their heart and instead try to reason things out on their own. Maybe you should tell one of your friends how you feel and see what she says. Sometimes what you think you will like you end up hating and sometimes as they say the grass looks greener on the other side of the fence when it is not. Think about it.
2006-12-22 07:19:20 · answer #1 · answered by Lewis P 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Then you might want to take some time off the relationship. think things over and make sure you know what you want. It's not that complicated: when u really want to be with someone you feel it deep in your heart and soul. you wake up thinking about them and your emotions are invested in their happiness. If you feel uncomfortable maybe it's because you've known him all your life and he was fine as your friend but not as your boyfriend. Don't stay in a relationship that makes you uncomfortable in any way, it's not a good idea for either of you/
Good luck
2006-12-22 14:48:26 · answer #2 · answered by artist-oranit.com. 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes.. Usually after you've known someone for so long, its best to keep them as a friend only. Or else you start to feel like you are kissing your brother.... its weird and uncomfortable. Id just let him know how you feel and that you want to remain friends. Good luck
2006-12-22 14:44:38 · answer #3 · answered by Angel Eve 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be honest with him...tell him that you like him as a friend but that you have known too many of the things from his past and you don't believe that you two would work out in the long run...besides you don't need him to give you any strange diseases that you know that he had...
2006-12-22 14:45:23 · answer #4 · answered by IGH3Rat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
break up with him before you lead him on for to long and it gets serious.. you should not string someones emotions and feelings along while you are trying to figure things out.. you should let him know what is going on and how you feel about everything and then let him know when you get everything figured out and straight with your self.
2006-12-22 14:45:51 · answer #5 · answered by Emi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Follow your heart. If you are not into him, then maybe you guys should just remain friends.
2006-12-22 14:45:12 · answer #6 · answered by babygirl31 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell him yourself face to face but softly and tell him your reasons maybe he is feeling the same about you and looking for a way to tell you who knows?maybe you will hurt him this way but for sure you will hurt him more if you let him know it himself.
2006-12-22 16:20:51 · answer #7 · answered by kiki 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i so know what ur talking about!!!!! You just need to start flirting with other guys then he will become jealous and start paying more attention to u!!!!
2006-12-22 14:47:05 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
tell him what u feel and that u want to be friends
2006-12-22 16:03:30 · answer #9 · answered by Milly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to him about it-honesty
2006-12-22 14:45:31 · answer #10 · answered by bridgette c 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋