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2006-12-22 06:40:44 · 40 answers · asked by will987456 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
ive heard of some women really getting upset about it but to be honest i dont mind one bit. If he wasnt having sex with me at all and still playin with himself, i would be hurt and wonder why i wasnt getting ne, but like so many people have already said, we all do it. So keep having sex with ur wife but dont feel bad for enjoying urself too : )
2006-12-22 06:49:25 · answer #1 · answered by htmama 2 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Firstly... I'm a guy!
Just a comment. It is so refreshing to see all the women here (I'm not speaking to anyone under the age of 21) that realize it is a natural and heathly activity for men to do.
Its also cool to note a few of you enjoy watching us do it. It certainly re-enforces what I've believed for a long time. I'd rather wax my dolphin while my wife was asleep next to me then be out hoe-ing with another woman.
This is one of those rare threads here at Yahoo Answers that had a good question and a bunch of excellent responses!
2006-12-22 07:17:05 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It really doesn't bother me. Sometimes, the situation is to a point where we do not have the privacy to get intimate, so he just has to take care of himself. Also, we are in different places, due to the military, for a few months at a time, and during that time, it's only expected that sometimes he'll have to resort to taking care of himself.
As long as he's touching himself, instead of someone else, I'm fine with it.
2006-12-22 07:06:10 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he'd have washed his sweater himself, you will have asked why and flipped whilst he instructed you. He reported the mark so which you does not pass off on one once you observed it. undesirable guy will no longer be able to win right here can he and sounds as in case you're heading for catastrophe. He instructed you the way many beers he'd had, you p.c.. him up, take him to paintings, collect him etc. You repeated he saved saying he did no longer opt to pass such as you attempt to cajole your self whilst quite you're asking why does he ought to pass out. He wasn't forced to pass, he chosen to, despite if to style the song or no longer. ask your self why you weren't invited to fulfill his co workers - because you will have possibly led to a scene there or once you acquire residing house. Is your husband completely reliant on you for finding out to purchase around or does he no longer have a call ? He made a no fuss deal in regards to the celebration yet whilst he'd have been raring to pass, you will have been suspicious so he performed all of it the way down to maintain you pacified and almost ought to get your blessing. particular he danced with different females. the single whose hands you will rigidity him into finally in case you do no longer end this stupid behaviour and have faith him somewhat greater. he's exhibiting indicators and indicators that when a year of marriage to you, your possessiveness is attending to him, subsequently he not often is going everywhere without you in basic terms to maintain the peace. Dodgy initiate in married existence. what is going to you do whilst he's invited on a stag/lads evening out - tell him you will p.c.. him up on the tip of the evening or what ? provide him some respiration area.
2016-10-15 11:04:41 · answer #4 · answered by croes 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing. It is normal for all men to do this. Wouldn't you rather he be touching himself than out there having another woman do it for him? My husband does it sometimes. The only time it bothers me if he is watching porn off the Internet and masturbating. Now that is evil. Yuk.
2006-12-22 07:11:55 · answer #5 · answered by DDee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think there is nothing wrong with Masturbation. Men do it all the time, I would sit down and enjoy the show!! Why miss something sexy.. We women play with ourselves as well and it's perfectly normal too do so. We are all humans and we all have our needs. It's better to play with your self than to bring someone else to play with you who is not your partner.
2006-12-22 06:50:43 · answer #6 · answered by hazelshine 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Honestly it's happened to me before and I felt like I wasn't enough for him. Then I wondered who he was thinking about to do that. Alot of things went through my mind, but now I just know every man does it. It hurt at first to know he did that, but then when I found it was natural, I was ok with it. I understand how you must have felt, but don't think it's something you did wrong, or haven't done. I wish you well.
2006-12-22 06:48:13 · answer #7 · answered by live, love, laugh often! 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I am very impressed with the vast majority of the responders. Good show ladies!
2006-12-22 08:27:16 · answer #8 · answered by onlineseeker 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lol@ Karma.. right on.
Also depends on what he was using to get off with.. if it's pictures of farm animals or young children I'd be a LOT concerned. If he's just home choking his chicken for the hell of it, I'd probably tell him it was hot and not to stop til he was finished.
2006-12-22 06:47:42 · answer #9 · answered by supernaturaldj2000 2 · 5⤊ 1⤋
Why should I do anything in particular? My husband masturbates several times a day, or so he claims. I just don't see how he finds the time. But anyway, it's perfectly normal, why should it bother me?
2006-12-22 06:46:03 · answer #10 · answered by tabithap 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋