I'm sick of it. I hate it when others are mean and evil when it is not necessary and when nobody, no teacher, no adult, no person, can do something about it!
It it's mostly girls! The girls make fun of the not-so-popular people, even me! Hell, they just go for the jocks and others cool people.
So, please, all girls, can y'all stop being mean?
2006-12-22 06:21:57 · 28 answers · asked by ZZ 4 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
I even see it on here sometimes.
2006-12-22 06:27:18 · update #1
You aren't going to believe this when I say it, but people who are capable of being mean right now have some flaw in their personality, and it isn't going to go away. Sometimes the very thing that makes them "thrive" in school socially is the thing that will make them losers in "the real world". Of course, that doesn't mean everyone in any "in crowd". There are exceptions, but the exceptions don't tend to be the ones who are mean.
What you probably don't notice is that for however many girls are rotten to you there are a zillion others who are not. I once read an article about cliques and "in-crowds" in schools, and it was said that most people don't fit in with the "in-crowd" because in order to fit in the people in it have to have a little streak of mean in them in order to be willing to exclude other kids.
Sometimes there can be a kid who is welcomed into the "in-crowd" but who will decide not to hang out with those kids after a while because she discovers they aren't particularly nice people or good friends. I'm not saying that's everyone in any "in crowd", but its enough of an issue to have an article written about it.
Just think up some clever thing to say back to them. Find something ugly about their looks or personality and point that out. Even if they're not really ugly, find something: If they have a round face, call it a fat face. If they have a pointed-type nose, call it a hook nose. If they have a roundish nose say its a clown nose or a big, Irish nose. Do they have high forehead you can make fun of or no chin or fat legs or ankles. Beady eyes? Bugs eyes? They've got something you can zero in on. You may as well give it right back to them. They don't like you anyway. Don't let them bully you, even verbally.
Otherwise, just say, "Do you have nothing better on your brain than what I do?" or "Don't you have anything else on your brain other than what I look like?"
Just find a way to stop worrying about what someone means says. I know its hard, but try to remember that even some of their friends don't think its too admirable that they have to be mean to someone else.
2006-12-22 06:47:28 · answer #1 · answered by WhiteLilac1 6 · 2⤊ 2⤋
Don't worry about it. All of the "popular girls" that I went to school with are overweight 20 somethings with 3 kids and no further education, or are on welfare with three kids and sucking dick for their next coke fix. You'll be their supervisor or the owner of the company they work for after they're divorced trying to bring up those 3 kids. Seriously. It's not worth sweating stupid little girls. They think they're something great, but they're really nothing but children.
2006-12-22 15:22:44 · answer #2 · answered by sovereign_carrie 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I was never mean to begin with. All the guys who I like are not mean to me, per se, but ignore me and go for my friends and the popular girls which is even worse some times.
Guys: Could all of you please stop ignoring the girls who actually like you and stop going for the slutty popular girls?
At my school, the girls are not mean to the guys' faces- they just don't flirt with them and then talk about them behind their backs.
Life would be so much easier with arranged dating.
2006-12-22 14:46:15 · answer #3 · answered by Ashley 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
heres how I see it a couple years from now
Not so popular in school but now a boss of a big company yelling
"CLEANUP ON AISLE 12!" to the popular people
So as you can see in childhood/teenhood were the losers, but that only makes up 1/10th of our life
the other 9/10th of our life they are the losers and we are the rich, "your fired!" yelling bosses who the losers hate
The other thing you can do is apply for another school that specializes in any of your interests.
2006-12-22 18:16:07 · answer #4 · answered by R2_ 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm really sorry to hear that you are having trouble with that. The girls I used to hang out with got that way so I stopped hanging around them. I hate it but there's not much anyone can do except ignore them and let them know that it annoys you. Sorry about that though but know that not all girls are like that.
2006-12-22 15:54:43 · answer #5 · answered by me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have never been mean to not so popular people, because i have high self-esteem. Those who put others down just feel insecure about themselves and have low self-esteem(which i s pathetic). I choose to ignore these people and get on with life!!!!
PS.BOYS CAN BE MESSY AND CRUEL TOO!! KNOWN FACT
2006-12-24 01:09:11 · answer #6 · answered by Lovely 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay, if i was ever mean to anybody not-so popular people, im sorry and ill try to stop if i ever start. and maybe ill even ask a nerdy guy out since i cant get a boyfriend myself lol. and to be nice ill even say i like ur shirt and u seem very nice. have a great day!!!
-hettyâ¥
2006-12-22 14:34:23 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Thats just what Young Girls do though. It's sad , But it's Like someone who is a Bully to another child. It's something they will grow out of in time.
2006-12-22 14:26:03 · answer #8 · answered by lilredhead 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'm not included in this cause i'm not a mean girl, but i do know that girls can be so very mean and cruel and heartless at times. They are just lost, pray for them.
2006-12-22 14:38:00 · answer #9 · answered by mcentiremadness 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
i know how you feel. i am a girl but i am not like that. i hate it when all of the guys and girls that are popular are all swooning over each other and it leaves the rest of us out alone.
2006-12-22 14:56:00 · answer #10 · answered by I♥RD 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋