your teacher literally hates you. and you know this is true. she said it to you. what do you do?

Question

my teacher hates me, for real, she even said it to my face. she gives me f's even when it's a plus work, i had my parents check it. we've told the principal, but when she asks the teacher, the teacher will lie, and the principal believes the teacher. i don't like this. i need help.

Answer 1

have the principal check your work, ask for a different teacher, if all else fails go to the board... ♥

Answer 2

You need to find a teacher you can trust and talk to them about this. If not, try writing a formal letter to your principal outlining when and exactly what your teacher said to you, along with samples of your work and her unfair grading. It might help to contact an outside tutor or actually more than 1, or teachers from another school, and ask them what they would grade the work as, then include these statements in the letter to your principal. The principal may then have to accept that something unfair is going on. You shouldn't have to put up with it. If worse comes to worse, you can go to the school board.

Answer 3

Document, document, document. If what you're saying is true, it's going to take a lot of proof to get this teacher out of the classroom. Keep all graded work in a folder. Document any and every instance in which the teacher says or does something unfairly towards you (go ahead and write down the approximate date of when she said she hated you). Most importantly, kill her with kindness. Don't give her any solid reason to dislike you. Once you feel you've gathered enough evidence against her, talk with the principal again. If she's unresponsive, talk to the superintendent. Take it to the school board if need be. Best wishes!

Answer 4

Dont be carried away by the hate that your teacher shows. Most of the time, hate against somebody under our power, only means frustration in our own (her) lives.
Accept the "hate" but dont give up.Real hate, takes years to develop. and finding somebody arrogant, flippant or annoying is more frequent.....(not a real "hate")
Wait for some few days, she may be quite sensitive to a small gift, she is a woman after all, (You will hate my idea, bu it works), however wait until she is down or under pressure to do the move.
A small non expensive gift will take her entirely by surprise, given the fact, that she was "sincere" enough, to express her dislike for you, or Your Classmates too.
If she needs urgent help with something, (p0lease have some spy around, it eventually works), catch her in the tight spot.....it works eppearing there "casually" to help, please dont show any emotions, (I know is hard, but acting has saved even lives),
If the oportunity is given, let her know that you accept her hatred, ver you will tell her that " even so and despite that, You like her....well way of teaching, dressing etc)
My young friend, that is what young people cannot stand and call "hypocresy". We, old people, call it " survival tactics".....
It has worked for me when I was in High School and as a Doctor in the Army.....find the soft spóts of your enemy, and pretend you dont hate (him or her, does not matter), because if you are obvious in your real feelings, you will be the only looser....remember, you have to stand her until the end of courses, however if you show hate or rancor against her, that can be a serious problem for your next vacation, or even completing the school year.
Please keep me posted...It sounds like a very familiar school situation to me...

Answer 5

simply forget it and carry on with your life. She may be angry with you regarding some of your behaviour or attitude, she is a human so she can feel unhappy. So, think of your own attitude and behaviour, if that's your fault, change it then turn and say sorry to her. If not, leave it. Complaining to Principal or other teacher may not help slove the problem. After all, you get promoted to next grade and may not see that teacher that often. We do encounter difficult people at times, this is part of our life.

Answer 6

My guess is that dropping the course is not an option, or you would have done so already. It sounds like changing classes isn't an option either. That means you need to try to discover how to get along with your teacher. It's not fair. But nobody ever said life was fair. Sadly, one of the most important job skills you will learn is getting along with all types of people ... even irrational, borderline psychotic people like your teacher.

To avoid repeating your course in summer school, I would make certain that your complaints of unfair grading practices were well documented. I would keep all of homework and tests well organized in a folder and appeal the grade at the end of the term.

Answer 7

Change classes, or record her conversation. This is amazing that your principal is not firing the teacher. I did not know teachers had this kind of power anymore. Hooray for your school for allowing teachers to be in charge. I am not saying what she is doing is right, but hell the way schools are now I applaud your school.

Answer 8

I find this difficult to believe. A teacher telling a student that she hates him/her. What grade are you in? There are two sides to this incident and it would be very interesting to hear the Teacher's side.

If this has occured then the School Authorities should be notified so an investigation can be started.

Teachers teach, guide and correct - they should not allow emotion to cloud professional judgement or adversely affect ethics.

Answer 9

If this is truth, God knows it. Let God deal with your teacher and you pray for her. The Lord loves us and especially children. I even believe the principal will find out about this teacher in his or her own time. It has been brought to the principal's attention and the principal will find out the truth. Just have patience.

Answer 10

an issue between two people can best be solved between the two people themselves. definately, you have done something the teacher finds wrong though you might think its nothing to be bored about. individual differences my dear!
the best thing you can do is write a note of apology and ask the teacher of a time to meet him/her alone. if nothing good comes out of that, do it again without asking for time to meet but be sure to use the politest words ever.may be with a flower or something you are sure he likes. if that fails, follow him up to get him one on one. just apologise of course with the politest words ever and just walk away only to turn back if he calls.
i wish you all the best. If you are naughty, please dont be anymore. i am a teacher. its most at times very much disheartening to have a naughtyn student. whatever the case, just humble yourself. he is your teacher and responsible for moulding your life. dont forget that