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Even though it is 17-18 years away, (He is 18 monthes old), It's good to get an early start. Any advice?

2006-12-22 06:14:16 · 8 answers · asked by Gardenfoot 4 in Education & Reference Higher Education (University +)

I have a "feeling", he will want to go into the military.

2006-12-22 06:16:13 · update #1

8 answers

It's ok to encourage him, but please remember that it must be HIS choice. Attending a military institute requires great mental and physical endurance; the programs are set up to weed out those who are there just to please their parents, so don't push him too hard, or you'll just set him up for failure.

There are several things you can do to help him get into a good school, military or otherwise. First, make reading a top priority in your house. At 18 months, you should read to him often to establish it as part of his routine early. Also, try to encourage him with other appropriate educational activities as he gets older-- going to museums, taking music classes, etc.

Sports are also a great to help a child learn teamwork, fitness, and other skills, but be sure your son understands that sports come second to his education. Help him find a sport that suits his interests and a program that will build character, not one that pushes the kids to solely focus on competition-- any military academy is going to be interested more in his attitude about teamwork than how many points his team scored when he was in elementary school.

And finally, encourage ALL of his interests. Both military and academic schools are looking for well rounded individuals and there are hundreds of careers available in the military. Remember that the fine arts can open a door, as well. For example, the military looks for top musicians for their bands, they need photographers to record events, etc.

The most important thing to consider is that entering a military academy is a serious commitment to your country. If he goes, let it be as his decision and because it will fufill his life.

2006-12-22 06:38:34 · answer #1 · answered by jc 4 · 1 0

Raise him around military people, get the influence going, he will respect those people. Do small things, such as hang airplanes (model not paper) on his wall, teach them what they are, for birthdays and stuff buy him toy soldiers, helicopters, boats etc. Tell him what they are, what they do, who uses them etc. Make it a fun trivia, play a little war with him and say like "awe man you destroyed my blackhawk with its 27.62 mm M60 machine guns!! By the time hes 10 he will be a genius.
Once age 12 have him join the Civil Air Patrol. (it is ages 12-18 for cadets, and 18+ for seniors (hey, you dont gota be a senior citizen lol) They do over 95% of the inland search and rescue for the USAF, they are like ROTC on steroids. You go on actual missions, find and save lost aircraft, do border patrol, dine with the queen of England,get free flight training the possibilities are endless.
Also once you join the CAP and get to an officer rank and join the USAF you get 2 pay raises!! Also over 10% of the air academe cadets are from CAP. A very high number of CAP members also join the marines, navy, and army. It is an awesome program that would get him motivated.

Good luck-soundnut

2006-12-22 06:36:53 · answer #2 · answered by Soundnut 2 · 0 0

When he is old enough explain to him the function of the military services and tell him that they only exist to be available to take part in conflicts anywhere in the world at a moment's notice. Tell him that he must be prepared to die and that he will be expected to follow orders, no matter how illogical or irrational, without question He must expect to be hated by the people of any country he visits, be spat on, ridiculed and even killed. He must be prepared to kill anyone he is ordered to do so, man, woman or child and cause misery to thousands. If ordered he must destroy their houses, vehicles an possessions based on the decisions of politicians he will never meet and who take no risks. If captured by an enemy he must expect to be tortured and executed, probably whilst being filmed and shown on the Internet.

If he still wants to join up then he will have truly been brought up in a sad way.

2006-12-22 06:27:13 · answer #3 · answered by quatt47 7 · 1 0

Sounds to me like you want to "live your life through your son", a complex. He will make his own choices in life after he grows up and leaves home, no matter what you want. That is just the way it is. However, top grades in school will be necessary for most endeavors he wants to undertake in life, even if it IS military academy. This is a good way to prepare him for most anything he wants to do as a career. Please don't demand of him top grades if he is less than a genius, however.

2006-12-22 06:28:08 · answer #4 · answered by hillbilly 7 · 1 0

I like the manners enforcement.
Teach him good moral judgement, including religion.
Physically fit and well rounded, he needs both mental and physical skills.

Please remember that there are physical requirements and that if his eyesight is not good, or he is too tall, it can require a waiver for admittance, in addition to the appointment.

You also need to cultivate friends in Congress to acquire the appointment.

2006-12-22 06:23:34 · answer #5 · answered by Aggie80 5 · 0 0

verify he values practise, is bodily in good shape, and learns to undertaking resolve; in keeping with possibility he can pass to West factor, Naval Academy, or Air tension Academy then and earn way extra beneficial than enlisted adult adult males. additionally, comprehend his evaluations if he does not desire to connect the militia whilst he's older. the militia certainly seems after each and everything the warriors could desire to properly known, so basically verify he has a reliable life and various opportunities till then so he's conscious of what he's physically powerful at and easily desires to do (whether he chooses to connect the militia, he will specialize, as a result he will could desire to properly known what hobbies him), basically such as you may do with the different youngster. easily, i think of grooming young ones is a sprint ill; they could desire to be waiting to p.c. their very very own occupation path, incredibly once you're grooming them for one that is so risky. He could desire to serve the rustic because of the fact he desires to, no longer because of the fact he's been advised that's what he's going to do his entire life.

2016-10-05 21:59:28 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0 0

Raise him to be polite and mindful of others. It is never too early to start teaching good manners. They stick with us throughout our lifetime. Provide a good morale foundation and he will have the right stuff to get him started.

2006-12-22 06:18:31 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

Are you serious? I mean, its great to set goals, but you might want to let him learn how to speak before you decide his future for him. Your best preparation is going to be for yourself: your son is not an extension of you and will not live out your plans for him. Start accepting it now.

2006-12-22 06:18:21 · answer #8 · answered by leahivan 2 · 1 0

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