I always hear about flexible girls being preferred. I'm not flexiable and when i get on top on my boyfriend i just kind of bounce(up and down).i thought he liked it.So i asked my B/friend, if he prefered a girl who has a flexiable waist and asked him to be honest.He said that,he once dated an african girl who had a flexible waist and rode him better than i do,and that she was able to move her hips in a circular motion even when he was on top of her.He said it was great sex.She went back to africa.I asked him to guide me but i have a kind of sift waist. SO I APPROACHED ONE AFRICAN GIRL and she took me to another african woman who actually teaches american women how to please a man in bed.It was unbelieve the number of women that attend her class. I LOVE MY MAN but do you think i should take these classes. GUYS would you want your g/Friend to take classes on how to move her hips better in bed? Ladies would you go to such a class for your man?
2006-12-22 06:13:59 · 10 answers · asked by good_but_naughty_gal 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
yeah i would,youve got me thinking now-do i have a flexible waist in bed.......ill have to find out,never thought about it,good luck on the classes if you decide to take them
2006-12-22 06:16:51 · answer #1 · answered by NATALIE W 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take the freaking classes and learn from this lesson. Don't ask your man if he prefers what other women can do in bed. It makes him start thinking that maybe he needs to go get a different woman. Just do what you can and quit obsessing over what you can't.
2006-12-22 14:18:48 · answer #2 · answered by PDH 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
In all honesty! Your man hasn't left you, so its not the sex thats keeping him with you. It must be everything else about you and not just the sex. I think that it would be your decision on how much you love your man and how much you want to please him. I would say that you shouldn't take the class just because of an insecurity that he might leave you or something. But if you plan to stay with him for a while and you want to spice your sex life up a bit, then GO FOR IT!
2006-12-22 14:23:37 · answer #3 · answered by big.daddy83 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow. Well, I would be willing, I guess, if I thought that I needed to. Do they have one for men where I could send my husband? LOL OK, that was mean. Sorry!
I think I'd go if my husband thought I should.
BTW, it's not just African American women that can move like that. So, there is hope for you.
2006-12-22 14:19:12 · answer #4 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why take a class when you can learn this on your own??? It's not that hard...practice by yourself. I'm not the most flexible person in the world, but I can move my hips when needed, LOL. Practice, girl!
2006-12-22 14:18:10 · answer #5 · answered by Heather C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Flexible waist?? I dont think you really need to go to a class for that. Just do twisting everyday and that would really help.
2006-12-22 14:24:53 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong with taking the classes to satisfy your man in bed. I am proud because you did not get offended when he told you the truth. Girl go for it!.
2006-12-22 14:23:27 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your BF is very Lucky!!!
1) You want to make him happy.
2) You could talk to him about what he likes and has experienced before.
3) You're willing to do something that a lot of women would be too embarrassed to do, to learn new ways ot please him.
So even if you never learn to be flexible, your BF is already very lucky, and I hope he knows it!
2006-12-22 14:20:52 · answer #8 · answered by DorkBait 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm usually not thinking about her waist.
2006-12-22 14:45:30 · answer #9 · answered by convoiceofreason 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is a sift waist?
2006-12-22 14:47:48 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋