my bf of 2 yrs broke up wit me back in july. i was soo heartbroken and couldnt beileve it. we were inseperible. before he left for basic training we were still very tight and still messed around. then i became pregnant and lost the baby on november 22. (he was still at training and i tried to give him hints through letters but i just couldnt straight out tell him) after 4 months of breaking up, i moved on. was it the right thing to do? it was the hardest thing i have ever done. the guy im wit now has been my best friend for 5 yrs. now my ex-bf is home from trainig for the holidays and he still doesnt know. i had my cousin write him a message on myspace telling him, but its still so hard. i found somebody tht loves me and wants to be with me and moving on made me feel a lil better and helped me get over the miscarriage i had...........did i do the right thing by moving on? plz let me know
2006-12-22 06:04:00 · 5 answers · asked by Sara 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
yes
2006-12-22 08:04:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes you did the right thing by moving on. He did break up with you and you can't just sit around waiting and hoping that he will come back to you. If you feel like your happy in the relationship you're in now then just forget about the ex. Good thing he's your best friend of 5 years..you guys know each others good and bad qualities. Just make sure you feel the same way that your new bf feels for you. Also, just enjoy each other and practice safe sex or go on birth control so you won't bring a baby in the situation. Relationships change a lot after having a baby.
I'm sorry to hear about your miscarriage.
2006-12-22 14:17:07 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you did the right think by moving on! He broke up with you, and you had no obligation to let him know you had a miscarriage. Enjoy your relationship with your new boyfriend and use birth control until you are married!
2006-12-22 14:09:08 · answer #3 · answered by AnnieD 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes I think that you did make a right decision because you have to do what you feel is right. As long as you're happy that's all that matters nothing else. Though I would make an attempt to contact your ex-b/f to let him know what's going on and why you decided to make the decision you chose.
2006-12-22 14:20:00 · answer #4 · answered by @))& YAY!!! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yessssssssss just move on and I think is been to long you should move on long time ago...Sorry about that but life is too short and is so beautiful...Yesssssssssss Just move on better things for you ahead....
2006-12-22 14:19:33 · answer #5 · answered by nena_en_austin 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋