Well there is this girl,Jess,I hate her soo much. We USED to be friends in the summer and never liked me and talked about me. She likes my other 2 BFFS and always talks to them and ignores me. THey hate her too. I think our whole grade hates her ******* guts. We ignore her and dont invite her anywhere. I dont know if she gets the message or not... She has talked about everyone in our whole grade and said nasty things about really nice girls... ignoring her wont work... being mean to her doesnt work.. idk what i want... i feel bad when she is discluded but then other times i wanna flip her off. being her friend IS NOT an option.. I just want her to go away for ever... NOT die just transfer to a different school... HELP ME PLEASE!!! I have 2 more years of school with her... IDK WHAT I AM GONNA DO!!! I WILL GO CRAZY!!!!
2006-12-22 05:56:34 · 19 answers · asked by Michelle 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Her family life is fine... from what i know... he mom, dad, and sister are all nice and has a nice house.
2006-12-22 06:01:39 · update #1
WE have been trying to talk to her but never ever ever changes... no matter what we say...
2006-12-22 06:03:44 · update #2
WE have been trying to talk to her but never ever ever changes... no matter what we say...
2006-12-22 06:03:48 · update #3
kick her in the shins, yell "STAY THE F*** AWAY FROM ME AND MY FRIENDS B****!" :)
2006-12-22 05:59:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If ignoring her won't work and she keeps on doing what she wishes then there is not much you can do. If you don't want her as a friend then you have to put up with her one way or the other. I think though she is like she is because everyone dislikes her and she feels left out of things and wants to get back at everybody for treating her the way you and your friends do. I may be wrong but I don't think so from what you are saying. Don't you think that if you and your friends were to be nice to her and include her in some of your activities she would be nice to you? You know there is an old saying, "Do unto others what you want them to do unto you." If you are nice to someone nine times out of ten they will be nice to you. Trust me it works.
2006-12-22 14:03:44 · answer #2 · answered by Lewis P 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Maybe you should just ask her what is going on. SHe may really need a friend. You never know you may be the one to save he life. Trust me it can get that deep.
If she doesn't respond at least she know someone cared enough to ask her.
Invite her somewhere with just the two of you so it is more personal. Maybe out to eat. Sit down and talk and get to know her, never know what you may find out. And at some point ask her (in a nice way) why she acts the way she does...
2006-12-22 14:04:55 · answer #3 · answered by t j 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lifes a *****, you seem very immature to be honest :/
Sorry but in life you have to learn to be able to go through with people you don't like in some cases detest,
What you going to do if this happens in work? Leave? life isn't that simple when you've got bills to pay.
Speak to her, tell her why you dont like her maybe shes aware of it and just wants some attention. Be mature about these things.
Good luck
2006-12-22 14:01:30 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well first of all, i would not be mean to her. I just wouldnt talk to her and ignore. But just say with your friends, like hey, we really dont wanna hang out with you anymore. you have changed a lot and we dont wanna hang with you. then if she goes like telling people about how dumb she thinks you are, then just ignore them. as long as you still have a group of friends your next few years will be fine.
2006-12-22 14:01:10 · answer #5 · answered by MOSS 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would either start ignoring her and saying that you have to do other things or like try to sort of change her and make her stop talking about other people
2006-12-22 14:02:22 · answer #6 · answered by hannah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Grow up. You are concerned about your feelings and your reputation to hang out with someone who isn't like you.....maybe if you were a good example to her you could teach her few things.....You grip about her talking about you, but you are online talking about her......What is the difference other than you left out her name? Get off of your High Horse and help her to become a better person.
2006-12-22 14:04:30 · answer #7 · answered by Been There Done That 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Stop letting her bother you so much. What did she do to you that was so bad? Don't think about her, make it known that you don't want her around and keep ignoring her. That's all I can say.
2006-12-22 14:01:59 · answer #8 · answered by Brownie_baby 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why don't you and all your friends just shun her and tell her point blank you don't think she's a very nice person. And when she tries to talk to you guys ignore her.
2006-12-22 13:59:44 · answer #9 · answered by Jessica R 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ignore her, your wasting your time on being angry. Enjoy your last two years of school.
2006-12-22 13:59:46 · answer #10 · answered by c_eva02 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well
i guess you should be like the rest of the school
and just be a little away from her
then if everyone does that then she will maybe inprove a little
2006-12-22 14:04:06 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋