2006-12-22 05:19:53 · 26 answers · asked by niis 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
leave him!
2006-12-22 05:21:17 · answer #1 · answered by kelly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We all know what you have to do, but can't make you do anything. You should leave him. He is obviously hurting you and if he stops his other relationships for you and you two try to work it out, there will never be that same trust between the two of you. It's going to be really hard to leave sweetie, but I think it's the best thing for you. There are far more men out there who are looking to have a great woman like you. Take care and god bless.
2006-12-22 13:24:06 · answer #2 · answered by dazed&confused81 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if it hurts you so much you should leave and find your own happiness either byyourself or with someone else.
It wont be easy but find it in you heart to forgive him and move on forgiving doesnt exactly mean you have to forget. But it will certainly ease your mind, body and soul and allow you to move on to someone better. Learn from the experience and learn to love yourself. Some men arent really men at all there little boys in a mans body. I hope you feel better and wish you much luch in you life and in love.
2006-12-22 13:31:58 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if it has gone on six years, i presume u have spoken to him with no avail than maybe it's time to divorce him, this misfortune may be an opportunity to change. u could not feel good about yourself over this, and he couldn't truly love u and see how you are hurting and continue. take control and make your life what u want it to be, and leave what hurts u, as every crisis is a choice point, to change things.
2006-12-22 13:37:42 · answer #4 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a lawyer, and move on!!! Why would you let yourself be tortured for so long? Enough is enough. Life is too short to waste it on someone who's treating you poorly. Leave his sorry bum - but see a lawyer first to find out what your rights are. Adultry will cost him lots of $$$$$ - if you do it right.
2006-12-22 13:24:31 · answer #5 · answered by Bondgirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ive been in this situation before. we had two children together and i found out. i was soooo hurt and pissed, but i thought about the kids. but things became too much to bear. i was with him for almost 6 years also. honey, you deserve better, no matter how much you love him, and he may love you, he just isn't respect you and you deserve someone who will give you that respect. in order for you to be happy with yourself and your life you need to make that move. it will hurt for awhile, but in the long run you will feel alot better. trust me. i am sooo happy, my kids are happy. they still get to c their father, but they don't have all the fighting and emotional abuse around them. stay strong and don't allow yourself to put up with the abuse. thats what it is honestlabuse.
2006-12-22 13:28:55 · answer #6 · answered by kayla b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you keep on what you're doing , you'll just hurt yourself. You can never forget what he did even he breaks up with the other woman. Be bold , leave him , live your life. It's easy to say i know but you should know that you can never be happy with the guy who cheats on you.
2006-12-22 13:24:43 · answer #7 · answered by Rika 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relationships in the plural? Leave him.
If it had been a one-night stand at his office Christmas party, maybe you could have forgiven him. But more women? You deserve better!
2006-12-22 13:22:35 · answer #8 · answered by Great Dane 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Need more information. You could always drain his bank account, run up all his credit cards. No one wants a broke man. Unless he is tall and has alot of hair. Then most girls will take him, looser or not.
2006-12-22 13:22:44 · answer #9 · answered by LuckyChucky 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he needs to be an EX-husband. Honestly.
2006-12-22 13:24:53 · answer #10 · answered by Heather C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LEAVE HIM AND TAKE EVERYTHING. MAKE SURE YOU GET A LAWYER AND USE THE ADULTERY CLAUSE, SO YOU CAN GET ALLIMONY. THEN MAKE SURE EVERYONE YOU KNOW, AND HE KNOWS, ABOUT WHAT HAPPENED. THEN GO OUT AND GET YOURSELF A NEWLY SINGLE MAKE-OVER, MOVE OUT OF THE AREA, AND BEGIN THE NEW YOU. DO NOT HAVE ANY CONTACT WITH HIM AFTERWARDS, NOT A SINGLE WORD THAT ISN'T THROUGH YOUR LAWYER.
IN THE WORDS OF DONALD TRUMPS 1ST WIFE: "DON'T GET MAD, GET EVERYTHING!"
2006-12-22 13:24:26 · answer #11 · answered by RoadRunner 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋