I know it is sick and weird, but in the last year i have developed a strong sexual attraction to my grandmother. I would never act on this attraction but i find her very sexy and sometime think about her while I masturbate. i have lived with her all my like she has taken care of me since my mom died a long time ago. This feeling started about a year ago after i accidentally walked in on her getting dressed and saw her completely naked. This is sick and i am very ashamed, but don't know how to stop it can anyone give me some advice to kick this digusting fantasy?
2006-12-22 04:52:19 · 24 answers · asked by gearheaddrummer 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Do not seek a shrink as they are liars and will pollute you're mind. Rather, come to terms with it. You know it is wrong and before you develop an Odepius Complex try not to think about it. Reason with yourself and realise that it is not right. If you have to, however, see a psychologist as this may be related to other issues that you might not wish to confide in me about.
2006-12-22 04:55:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
First of all, there is no such thing as bad or good, or right or wrong, only the perception of it.
There is also nothing wrong with fantasies...everyone reading this has had many of them, and some they'd never admit to.
They only become wrong when you try to act them out.
This young man has never said he wants to act his out, and he knows it's not something he would ever do...but it has become a fantasy. That doesn't mean he'd ever act on it.
He's even said he's ashamed of it, so give him a break.
As far as any advice I can give you, gearheadd, it wouldn't hurt to see a professional to help you get over this.
2006-12-26 12:05:42 · answer #2 · answered by nova30180 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a very unusual problem. Since you can't get her off your mind, I would suggest that you get counseling. You can't get past this alone. Your being ashamed is a good thing--it shows that you do have a heart. Does your grandma know that you walked in on her? How old are you?
Feel free to email me if you'd like to talk more about this.
2006-12-22 13:27:43 · answer #3 · answered by postcardtrader 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is a classic case of sigmund freud..your not attracted to your grandmother your attracted to the women she is..you'll probably end up marrying a woman that the same personality as your grandmother...this is a digusting fantasy your right but go look for a girlfriend...maybe that would help...
2006-12-22 12:59:47 · answer #4 · answered by Salome D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I want to ask you are you white?At least you know it's wrong and you will never act on it.So prey about it to God. God is your only salvation on this one. I would love to tell you it's normal and it will pass. But you have taken it to another level,by masturbate in thinking of her. Can't you go but a poster in put it on your bedroom wall in look at that while you masturbate. You need to think of ways of not to think of old grandma. Get a girlfriend or something. This is a Jerry Springer story.
2006-12-22 13:01:40 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
MOVE OUT!!!!!!!!!!! or try talking to her. but personally i think you need professionl help nothin on yahoo answers is going to help! Also stop masturbating and get a real girlfriend! I don' t care how normal it is for guys to masturbate IT"S DISGUSTING!
2006-12-22 12:56:07 · answer #6 · answered by Me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie seek counseling before you act. An evil thought entertained long enough becomes an evil deed.
2006-12-22 12:55:13 · answer #7 · answered by LOLO W 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
i think the best way is to leave the house for some days and get out. and go date other people
2006-12-22 12:56:57 · answer #8 · answered by gina 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok dude thats really weırd but at least ur ashamed about ıt. my advıce ıs get a gırlfrıend. and ıf u lıve wıth ur granny ´,move.
2006-12-22 12:56:48 · answer #9 · answered by elif k 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Therapy.
2006-12-22 12:54:58 · answer #10 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋