i am friends with his ex on myspace and she posted a bulletin about what happened in her 2006 yr. well at the beggining she said she kept having to keep him (my now boyfriend) from getting arrested for public drunk and that he was all over some girl at the bar while she was there and he was drunk. well i dont know if i should tell him and show him. and i know she hates me but we still act like friends anyway. she's over here alot because shes friends with his sister and i think she put that because she'd know id read it. and it said that one thing he did to make her happy was surprisse her with her favorite meal. he alwas does this with me. well....advice?
i really dont like the fact that he does stuff with me that he used to do with her. and the fact that he would be all over some girl while she was there at the bar with him. We've been together for 7 months. what should i do
ft3535 (frank) tell me. what should i do?
2006-12-22 04:50:14 · 18 answers · asked by manatee_love 3 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
it is a set up
watch out for her
she is trying to mess with you
be the better person ( I know you are anyway )
let it go
smile
good luck
2006-12-22 08:11:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would ignore what she's written. She sounds like she's still very bitter about everything and the fact that she has said this online and still hangs around with people connected to him proves that.
Don't give her the chance to put doubts in your mind. Take him as the person he has shown YOU to be, not what someone else has said about him. With regards to cooking your fav meal - a lot of guys cook meals for the women in their lives to show them how special they are to them. She probably said that to wind you up knowing he would do the same for you.
If you feel better showing him what she has written then do so and let him respond but don't start distrusting him for no reason. The fact that you are reading her bulletins shows you are insecure to a degree so stop doing that and giving her a chance to poison your mind. Trust him. If you don't then this bitter ex has won!
2006-12-22 12:57:14 · answer #2 · answered by JACQUI S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Id say watch your back with her. I wouldn't break up over it, especially if you've been with him for seven months and never witnessed this public display of drunkenness!! I totally agree with the girl that said girls can be snakey cuz they can be. For all you know she wants you to read it and confront him about it so you guys can argue and hopefully for her, break up. Don't believe the hype girlfriend! If she's his ex, you guys don't get along and pretend like you do, that alone let's you know you can't trust her!! So why trust what she wrote?!? Good luck, and keep your peepers peeled!
2006-12-22 12:58:42 · answer #3 · answered by Foxxy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl don't put yourself in that mess, if anything you should just confront him about it and get it over with, the longer you hold it in the worse it will get cause in back of your mind your going to be killing yourself about it for not asking him.....
Just ask him and problem solved....if he reacts stupid than you know you should't even be messing around with someone like that....be a BETTER person....
Good Luck!
2006-12-22 12:54:41 · answer #4 · answered by Just Me and My Baby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does he know about her myspace page? Does he reed it evar? Dragon thinks you should go with what you've experienced with him. That'll be bettar than going by what an obviously bitter ex is saying.
2006-12-22 12:53:48 · answer #5 · answered by VLIGER DRAGÖN 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think she put that there cuz she knew u would read it and be upset. sounds like shes friends with the sister so she can keep an eye on the ex. be careful girls can be snakey.
2006-12-22 12:53:06 · answer #6 · answered by miss_kiki4 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You liked the surprise meals before you knew it was something he did for her. Keep on enjoying those talents. Keeps close eye when he drinks.
2006-12-22 12:55:50 · answer #7 · answered by LuckyChucky 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should stop reading her bulletins, it's only going to make you jump to conclusions that you have no real way of verifying.
2006-12-22 12:54:59 · answer #8 · answered by sleepingliv 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should tell him about it and tell him the same things you are telling us on yahoo. That you dont like him doing the same things he did with her OR!!!!!!! you could show him what you just wrote on yahoo. Tell him "Hey theres something i want you to see.......
2006-12-22 12:54:30 · answer #9 · answered by issa r 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
End your relationships with those people.
2006-12-22 12:54:15 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋