I am obsessed with my wife & can barely stand being away from her- What should I do?

Question

My wife & I worked on a start-up business together. It lasted about a year & a half. We've both gone back to work full time. Since we've been together we wanted our own biz & to wrk together. Her new job is awesome and she is flourishing. She is always in demand from her clients & co-workers. They all love her. She is always busy, but still makes time to call me & email. It definitely has declined since she started and I miss her constantly. My attempt at getting back to full-time work has been less fulfilling.. I'm temping and NOT flourishing, not in demand, not distracted from thinking of her... so I sit here unfulfilled and missing her all the time, waiting always, on the edge of my seat for her next contact.... this sucks!!!!! What should I do... I feel like a school kid with a crush... and we've been married for 6 yrs with two kids! I feel like I get on her nerves telling her I miss her & that I love her. I feel tortured all day long & no luck yet finding better job.

Answer 1

I feel sorry for your wife! You need help

Answer 2

Your wife is a lucky woman. I think alot of woman can agree that we all wish we had that! But don't ever lose your love for her. What you have is something so precious and rare. Once again, she is a lucky woman. I think if you get involved in some local activities or try finding a job that you will really take an interest in, might help. Take a long drive somewhere when she's at work, and kids at school. Read a really good book, or watch some movies instead of being on the computer waiting for her emails and calls.

Answer 3

Honey it sounds like you have an underlying complex. Maby you don't realize that you sound a little jellous. Keep being happy for her and really mean it. You will get everything that you are looking for. If her job is that great maby you all can stem from her job and open a new business with some of her clients and work together. Never really hear of a man complaining of his wife not spending enough time with him. God bless you.

Answer 4

lol. You sound like me. I miss my husband all the time, too. I send him messages and emails telling him "I miss you" and "I love you." You are probably feeling a little left out because of her success. I was the same way. I have a great paying job that I hated, and I quit for a lower paying job that I love. Meanwhile, my husband's career was and is going great. I got accepted to a PhD program and got a raise, though, and that helped. I still miss him during the day, though :)

Answer 5

I too am so obsessed with my wife and I don't want that to change. I miss her when we are apart and I tell her all the time. I don't want nothing to ever change that...ever!...It is fun being in Love, more-so, I adore my wife and cherish every moment we get to share. Relax, set your ego aside, be thankful that you have someone to love and miss. That 'feeling like a kid in school' is awesome isn't it? I am a 43 yr old man, and I hope this feeling never goes away!

Answer 6

You sound like my husband and me. I am also out of work for the time being so I am able to visit my husband at work and have lunch with him. Nevertheless, when the agency calls for me to work for a few weeks it is hard on both of us we are constantly texting each other and he has commented to me that it is torture not having me around at his beck and call. We have been married for 26 years and there is nothing wrong when to people love each other this much. there will be people that are envies of this kind of love and I just feel sorry for them. What I am doing right now just to keep myself busy, I have enrolled in school and I am taking accounting classes. My advice to you is you need to keep busy do something for yourself that should take the edge off a little. I am happy to here that there are people like us that just “LOVE OUR” spouses. MERRY CHRISTMAS AND I WISH YOU AND YOURS A HAPPY LIFE!

Answer 7

you will be divorced here shortly, women need there space dude, just don't give to much space, i did that with my first wife, she had an affair, Now i find myself trying to do the same thing as you with my fiance'. limit yourself if its a text, 1 per hour, email dont send stupid ****, she'll quit reading them, only send meaningfull stuff and don't fill the inbox, i miss my fiance' every second, and worry, she is 100 times sexier than my first wife, so i have to keep her happy,<

Answer 8

Those are good feelings but maybe if youre job situation was better, you wouldnt feel a bit clingy. hehe You sound like a great husband and father. I wish good things for you dear. Have a lovely holiday and be happy for the good things you have. :)

Answer 9

Chill out...Quit telling her you miss and lover her so much, it loses it impact after a while and is irritating. You need to get your self a hobby and a job that's fulfilling because if you don't you will drive your wife away.

Answer 10

Please accept this comment from someone who knows. Your love will eventually smother her and she will back away from you.
I guarentee that if you do not find something to occupy your time and thoughts your marriage will not surrive. Your inability to do things without her constantly in your mind stems from you being unfulfilled within yourself NOT because of your undying love for her. Please look within yourself and figure out what you are missing. Only then will you enjoy the type of relationship that you seem to be missing.

Answer 11

It's not mental! It's love, but you can still love her if you go out worth your friends, and she goes out with hers. It will make your heart grow fonder!
So if you think you love her now, go to the store for a while when you get back and she doesn't ask questions you will love her more!