came back from his ex after seeing his kids jumped straight in the bath also scratches on his back with no explanation ive threw him out but he keeps kncking the door we have been trying for a baby for six months have i done the right thing
2006-12-22 04:32:09 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Trying to Conceive
we have been together 12 months nice chrissy present ay
2006-12-22 04:48:04 · update #1
that doesnt sound too good. if my man done that id make sure i got the truth out of him as for kicking the door if my boyfriend done that id kick him to see how he liked it. hope he isnt cheating but better u find out now if he is rather then when u have a baby on the way
2006-12-22 04:35:16 · answer #1 · answered by liz 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes you have done the right thing. He jumped straight in bath to try & get rid of a women's scent / perfume. Scratches on back could have been done by the same woman. I know it must hurt, but one a cheater, always a cheater ! Throw him out for good & dont let him come back. Dont cry in front of him & dont be weak. Be strong !! Thinking about you !!!
2006-12-22 13:03:05 · answer #2 · answered by The_Catcher_UK 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's knocking to come back in then I would listen to his explanation... reminding him that lying to me will end our relationship immediately whereas I will consider the truth as best I can.
Keep an eye on body language and hesitation when he talks... plus watch his eye movements... remember looking down is a classic sign of guilt and avoiding your eye contact is a classic sign of lying and disrespect to you.
Good luck.. I wish you all the happiness in the world.. no matter what happens with this guy...
...remember you are worth so much more... don't settle for anything less :)
2006-12-22 13:41:33 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I am not sure if he is cheating, however it does sound a little strange that he has scratches on his back. I think you have a gut feeling that he is cheating, and you should follow that. 9 times out of 10 that feeling is right. Good luck, merry christmas.
2006-12-22 12:37:35 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Even if he isn't cheating - with the attitude you have and the relationship you have you should NOT be trying to have a baby. Do you think that if you have a baby with him things will be better? Now he'll have even more children and believe it won't make you feel better that now you too have a baby with him and it won't fix anything in the relationship
2006-12-23 13:49:06 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
im so sorry hun but it sounds like its possible unless he has a damn good excuse for it!its up 2 u personally i would throw his áss out and move on but if u love him and want to make it work then its your choice.but think very carefully before you have a baby with him u dont want to be a single mum on your own wondering why you had babies with this man make sure he is not cheating and the right one first.good luck hun xxxxxxx
2006-12-22 13:24:44 · answer #6 · answered by jmc 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is easy to think your man is cheating if you are paranoid. Talk to him, maybe he has an explanation. If you are trying for a baby you must really love each other and you would be throwing that all away, do you want to do that?
2006-12-22 13:02:49 · answer #7 · answered by Busy Mommy of 3 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Right to the bath.. and scratches on his back ? Yes girl !!! I would say that you got played.
If he kicks the door down again, you should call the cops.
2006-12-22 12:42:24 · answer #8 · answered by Badspe11er 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't sound good at all and I admire you for not giving him the opportunity to spin some yarn. It must be upsetting for you because you love/loved this man but I think you did the right thing.
Respecting yourself is the most important thing and if he doesn't have any respect for you then he's not worth your time.
2006-12-22 12:50:36 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry to say this but u done the right thing good job u found out before u had a baby
2006-12-23 11:43:24 · answer #10 · answered by ade r 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋