We've been to court for child support and custody already. We were given joint legal and joint physical custody with the primary home being hers and reasonable visitation with me.we created a schedule with the mediator as to visitation. there were three stages in all. stage 1; visiting takes place at her home so I can learn her schedule with him e.g. nap times, meal times, bath times and so on. I agreed to this willingly as there is no reason for supervision but I felt it would be a good idea as well. Stage 2; I pick him up and take him for the day and return him home in the evening. Stage three; overnight visiting (weekends).
We are well into stage two and she will not let me take him. We had missed a few visits in stage ! so I was willing to continue for awhile but this is ridiculous. She has no valid reasoning for this and these are court ordered. My family dosent even get to see him at all.
2006-12-22 04:30:15 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
She is in violation of the Court Order--take her back to Court for Contempt and make sure you ask the Court to award you your costs and attorneys fees associated with the hearing to make her follow his orders--he'll do it.
Tell her you will pick him up at X time at X location. Regardless of what she say--show up---if she refuses, have your attorney file a Motion for Contempt--Because then you have an outright undisputable refusal.
You need to let her know right here and now that she, contrary to what she wants to think, she does not have all of the control and power--you have rights too--so go get them. Nip this in the bud now and things will go better in the future---
And keep doing it--what you may end up with here is a case of Alienation of Parental Affection-she's prohibiting you from having a relationship with your child--that's gonna piss off the court since she has no good reason......in the end, that could very well be the Material Change of Circumstance you will need so that you can get custody. Sounds to me like you are the grown up here--don't take this from her--put your foot down and protect your relationship with your child.
2006-12-22 04:44:20 · answer #1 · answered by kathylouisehall 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ask her why? Surely she isnt a completely unreasonable human being... Ask her why and if she actually has a legitimate reason, then there isnt much you can do. If she doesnt, then get the courts involved again, or at least tell her in a calm voice, that if she really has no valid reason for not letting you take your son too, then you have no choice but to get the courts to allow it.
2006-12-22 04:33:50 · answer #2 · answered by Angel Eve 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am not 100% sure of this, but I think you can actually call the cops and have them accompany you to her house when it is your time to get him. It is a court order and she is not following it, so this is a legal issue and cops may be able to get involved. Its sad that she is stealing this time away from you. I am a mom of a 10 yr old daughter and her dad never sees her. She needs to wake up and realize that she is lucky to have you interested in your son's life.
The longer your son is away from you, the harder it will be for him to get comfortable going with you. Don't let this slide, call the courts everyday if you have to.
2006-12-22 05:27:56 · answer #3 · answered by jack russell girl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately your going to probably have to take it back to court. Grandparents have rights. Unless there are threats of kidnapping, she has no reason to keep your grandson from you. If I were you I would return to court and get it specified by the judge that you are able to take him overnight.
2006-12-22 04:35:53 · answer #4 · answered by phgl83 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Go to the court and tell them this! she cannot deny you if you are a good father!
2006-12-22 04:34:01 · answer #5 · answered by phe_03 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have a right to see your child , And you child has a right to see & know you & his other grand parents. Go to your lawyer & tell him what is happening . Ask the lawyer for advice and if he could help you ..
2006-12-22 04:44:22 · answer #6 · answered by born again 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
consult the mediator and/or your lawyer if you had one and take her @ss back to court.... that's bullsh!t... she should be so lucky that you are willing to be there for your kid... she sounds very selfish... my kids dad won't give him the time of day. good luck
2006-12-22 04:34:49 · answer #7 · answered by Wiked 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
take her back to court
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2006-12-22 04:34:46 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋