Please refer to my previous questions.
My daughter seldom goes out at night without my accompany. So occasionally once she came back from a dinner party in school, she met this guy on the street again at 23:15. He talked to her," Have been out drinking?...Do you miss your father?" He might think that every time we come home late, we must have been drinking in the bar something. We don't. May be he does himself. I'm worried about my daughter. She has to come home later sometimes. Do I have to pick her up every time? but I don't feel safe to go out on my own so late at night. She thinks this guy's only friendly and every time he appeared was just an coinccidence. May be she's right, I'm totally wrong?
2006-12-22 04:29:17 · 6 answers · asked by lily on pool 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
I haven't read your previous question, but judging from this question - your mother instinct tells you this is a dangerous situation. I believe it is - this guy showing up all the time is more than coincidence - it is stalking. Men who stalk are very dangerous.
It is scary going out at night by yourself, but you must remember your daughter's safety. It seems as if you should pick her up for her safety. Keep your car doors locked. Let a friend know what time you are picking her up and when you will be back so someone is looking out for you too.
I have three daughters and when my mommy instinct has gone on high alert in the past, I have been right to supervise more. Listen to your heart!
Be blessed.
2006-12-22 04:35:52 · answer #1 · answered by Sandy S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would be extremely careful, but don't make your daughter hate you for snooping. Try and find out as much as you can about the guy and most importantly, your daughter, all without being too invasive. Those types of questions are creepy to me, but you never really know. You're the mom, you know what is right, just do what you feel. Just make sure that you don't get too much into her business, at least when she knows about it.
2006-12-22 04:33:10 · answer #2 · answered by Joe 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would pick her up when she has to come late. At least you wuold know she is safe. Keep an eye on this man. If anything else happens call the police station and make them aware of him.
2006-12-22 04:38:18 · answer #3 · answered by Baby Liam due 6/8/09 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It ain't worth finding out if your wrong. To hell with his feelings protect your daughter and call the cops on this freak. Mothers instinct is usually right. Do him a favor if not for yourself and tell him to beat it.
2006-12-22 04:37:12 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This sounds like he is leading up to something more than a stranger is entitled to. For one yuo don't say how old she is or he is.
YOU also don't say what she is doing out late.
His question as to do you miss your father and have you been drinking tells me he is geathering information on her for something more. It sould be for a romantic interest, or he earnestly is afraid for her and interested in her welfare. It also could be for soemthing worse. I would find soem way for her to not be alone at night unless on a date with soemone you can trust ,.
2006-12-22 04:34:44 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
A woman once told me that she was tired of competing with her daughter. Search deep within yourself Clarissa.
2006-12-22 04:36:56 · answer #6 · answered by Eva 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋