I am a little bothered because we ended up having crazy sex all night is he needing to go to strip clubs to get off , and I being stupid? just an opinion
2006-12-22 04:27:14 · 18 answers · asked by shadegirl15 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
He might have got worked up there, but he came home to you for sex. The strippers just served to get him more fired up than normal, and then you benefited with some great sex.
Sounds good to me!
2006-12-22 04:30:05 · answer #1 · answered by Abby O'Normal 6 · 4⤊ 0⤋
No your not overreacting, he didnt do what he said he was going to do and you are obviously upset he went to a strip club. But you also have to take into consideration that he was out with his friends, and it was a celebration so you knew he would be drinking. Are you sure his friend couldnt give him a ride? They might have been drunk too. GIve him a chance to make it up to you and just let him know that if he does that again, it will not be pretty for him.
2016-05-23 15:53:40 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl, if he wanted a drink he would've went to 7-11!!!!
When my boyfriend pulled that sh!t, I socked him square in the mouth and left his aS$ for 4 weeks, I had to let him realize how important I was..While he was constantly calling I was at the casinos..I also went to a male strip club myself, came back and told him I went there for "a couple of drinks" haha, you shoulda seen the look on his face..priceless
Never in his life will he pull that sh!t again..He knows whos boss!!
When we pass the place on the way to my moms house he even gets too scared to look at the damn building(LOL!!)
These other women up in here think that sh!t is okay, but its not, they're insecure, and dont value themselves..The day my man has to look at some dirty b!tches just so he can have good sex with me will be a cold day in hell..He better be havin good sex with me because he's turned on by me..
Keep your head up girl..Make him regret ever stepping foot in that damn place!!
If u need someone to talk to who's not gonna give u the same dumb answers/advice these people gave you e mail me
Cinfully_Me04@hotmail.com
2006-12-22 18:11:11 · answer #3 · answered by IceQueen 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I would not overreact if it happened only once. It happens to most guys and it is pretty harmless. Men anyway look at women all day long - it's safer if they do it in a strip club than at work. And if you like experiments, ask him to take you along.
2006-12-22 04:43:01 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
going to a strip club can and usually is a very stimulating experience-so he released his sexual energy with you -and in all probability was thinking and fantasizing about the hot babes at the club
2006-12-22 06:03:50 · answer #5 · answered by jjimmy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He went to a strip club to look at naked women and to get lap dances from these women. He didn't go there to have drinks with friends; there's a difference.
At least he came home to have sex with you intead of one of the prositututes (I mean exotic dancers). If he does this more than twice a year, he's got a problem.
2006-12-22 04:31:32 · answer #6 · answered by Hank Hill 3 · 2⤊ 2⤋
My fiance Went to a strip club fo a bachalor party. Guys just like to look at naked women. Just be glad that he came home to you.
2006-12-22 04:32:10 · answer #7 · answered by Baby Liam due 6/8/09 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
He didn't go to a strip club to "have drinks with friends"...
That's what guys do at strip clubs.. they have drinks.. their friends are there with them.
Why don't you stop worrying about what motivates your boyfriend. You don't need to control him.
2006-12-22 04:36:36 · answer #8 · answered by Badspe11er 3 · 2⤊ 2⤋
Is there a problem? Maybe you should go along on occassions. I would not complain especially if I am getting the best end of the deal
2006-12-22 04:29:44 · answer #9 · answered by stringhead3 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
If you got the pleasure out of him getting aroused why care how it happened?
Haven't you ever saw someone, got turned on, then had crazy sex with your boyfriend?
As long as he's coming back to you, don't worry about it!!! :)
2006-12-22 04:37:01 · answer #10 · answered by IceyFlame 4 · 3⤊ 1⤋