i'm in situvation to lose one of them....i don know whom to choose.....plz help me....but i need some1.....
2006-12-22 03:56:28 · 40 answers · asked by preetha 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Is he just a boyfriend or you really love him? true love doesn't come always . if this other person is your best friend then am sure he/she know you really well and your relationship can survive any problems , so just explain your reasons to ur best friend. And support the truth or the one who's innocent.
2006-12-22 05:07:07 · answer #1 · answered by whatever 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all decide the characters of both the persons and don't let love come in between when you are deciding. chose the one who is ready to do any kind of sacrifice for you. This the most general way.the following is my way
according to your question your are in a position of loosing some one and you have to choose one that means you love (obviously not in the same way) both of them. so according to me choose your best friend because i think( i am assuming) that your boyfriend is forcing you. you might be knowing your best friend from quiet a while and i think no one understands you better than your friend. if your boy friend is forcing you to choose leave him immediately because the person who cannot understand your friendship how can he be a good boy Friend???????
2006-12-22 11:24:39 · answer #2 · answered by abhimanyu 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that if a guy or a boy friend of urs trusts u then he never ll tell u to choose between him n ur best friend n at the same time if ur best friend is ur real friend then he / she ll never tell u to choose between the both .
so if both r forcing u to leave each other then leaving both of them is best option and find new friends in ur life
but if u r asking just for the sake of question i wud reply that choose the person whom the opposite person is telling u to leave .
actually having both is a rare case bcoz neither good friend is easy to find n nor a true love.
thats it ...............
2006-12-23 00:23:32 · answer #3 · answered by gauri k 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont know how u define ur best friend or boy friend. Try to find out with whom u can live with.. and without whom u can't! This will answer u who is important to u. Also rate both for attributes u find most important - such as - intelligence, involvement, maturity, fun, sex appeal. This is another way to rate the. Thirdly, get closer to both individually.. get intimate. also put them in difficult situation and observe. u will find how they behave in such situations. the person who takes care of u even in difficult situation and intimate situation is ur man!
2006-12-22 12:24:43 · answer #4 · answered by adventurous 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on the situation. If someone is asking you to choose, then thats not right. Best friends are forever but boy friends you can replace. Although, like i said, who ever is asking you to choose, should step back and think about how much you mean to them. No one whould ever make you choose.
2006-12-22 07:52:16 · answer #5 · answered by Amanda 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A good friendship is hard to find as well as a good boyfriend. So not knowing the circumstances as to why you have to make a choice it sounds as though the decision rests on your shoulders. I can say that if your good friend is a true "best friend" there should not be a reason to have to make a choice.
2006-12-22 04:04:42 · answer #6 · answered by P/T Doctor 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We don't have enough information on why you feel you have to make this choice.
however, you don't "need" anyone...you WANT someone in your life.
In general, boyfriends will come and go but friends are often with us throughout our lifetime...especially best friends...
Who has more long term value for you? Whom do you trust more? If you let one go, what are the chances you'll eventually lose the other one anyone and have neither of them in your life?
Much to consider...
2006-12-22 03:59:28 · answer #7 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Something is wrong to be put in that situation. Guys have a saying "Bro's before Ho's." Meaning best friends will hopefully be around for life, but relationships (especially when you are young) don't often last. I would choose my best friend, to keep that is.
2006-12-22 03:59:29 · answer #8 · answered by boredperv 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your friend is that true, then he wouldnt allow this situation to come, he will leave by himself, If at all one such case arises,its better to lose your Boy Friend,because even if you sacrifice your Friend, your Boy friend will doubt in future, he will suspect whether you are still in touch with your best friend.Its not in the other case.
2006-12-25 02:01:30 · answer #9 · answered by Arjun 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look gurl let me give u a piece of advice ALL GUYS R BASTARDS so u shud NEVER expect the guy to b with u 4ever....but ur frnd is goin to b there right by ur side no matter what.....n if (i am only guessin) ur bf told u to choose b/w him n ur frnd den dump him right away...when u lose a bf ur frnd is der to lend u that shoulder u need to cry on, but if u loose ur frnd den i guess u wud be left alone.......trust me i hav been through this n now i am all alone
2006-12-22 05:50:03 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋