My wife left me one year ago,i still love her and i cannot have another relationship with other woman,advise?

Answer 1

time heals, this is a bad time of year for those things. try to find a group of supportive people and move on with your life. good luck.

Answer 2

You and your wife need to keep go to marrage counseling. You will always regret not trying to work it out. I tell everyone that talks about divorce. "The grass is not greener on the other side and if it looks greener the it is artificial turf." Everyone's relationship has it's moments when divorce seems like the only way out, but if you think back when you and your wife first met I bet you thought everything was wonderful. Now you think it's terrible. What if the same thing happens with the new woman? I guess you will just jump from woman to woman and keep getting divorced. That new relationship always seems more fun, but in time it will be come the same old same old. Marrage is work and if you want it to work you need to work at it. I don't know what you do for a living, but if you quite your job every time it gets stressful or old, I would have quite my job and I'm the owner.

Answer 3

and u will always love her, but sometimes we have to accept life as it is.whatever pain you are going through, and wish hadn't happened will in time bring u benefits if u remove the blocks u have put up. good and evil,life and death,are all part of the positive negative design of our world, one doesn't exits without the other. the desire to learn, change,and grow from a painful event instantly connects u to the positive energy system, that helps u through the hard times, and gives u some control over the course of your life. so the stumbling block is u refuse to see that there may be someone else out there for u. know that whatever is happening now or in the future, is right for u and your happiness. surrender to this misfortune let it be whatever it is going to be, don't try to control it or refuse to ever be in another relationship, cause it could get mighty lonely as the years pass by.

Answer 4

Some people think it takes as long to get over someone as you were togetrher. That may be true. Don't rush it. try to socialize like going to parties, join an acting class - it's a great ice breaker. Creative writing classes are good too! Stan up social occasions are the best way to meet new people and you are bound to come across someone that likes you enough to talk to and maybe more. You need volume at this point. Enjoy your freedom, take a deep breath. Before you know it you'll be tied up again.

Answer 5

Of course not. You are not over your relationship with your wife. It will take time to heal. I think you are still holding onto the idea that she will come back. What would you do? Take her back so she could break your heart again? Just get on with life. Work, exercise and live. Millions of people before you and with you have and are going through the same thing. If they can make it, and they do, then you can too.

Answer 6

Give yourself some time - you were the one who was left. Maybe you knew your relationship wasn't working but you weren't ready. Letting go takes time and putting pressure on yourself to have relationships with other women is simply not realistic. Allow yourself a good two years and consider seeking some therapy to talk through your feelings and develop of plan to creating a life on your own for a while. You are not alone - all of us have had our heart broken and as painful as it is, things will be better.

Answer 7

You are still grieving now. Dont worry about other women at this point in time. You have to get on the road to recovery for yourself first. Takes time and you will find another woman when that time comes.Its hard to quit loving someone but it takes loving to go on with yourself.

Answer 8

Find something else to do besides dwell on the past. Concentrate on work or go out w/ the guys and have fun.
Don't try too hard to make yourself jump into a new relationship. If it's meant to be - it'll happen on it's own.

There's more to life then relationships. You have to let yourself heal.

Answer 9

omg please take ur time dont just into another relationship its only been a year that well for me isn't long enough besides the next woman ur going to go out with will be judged by u and compared to ur ex wife i know u may not think that will happen but it will its natural i have been with my g/f now for 5 yrs and still compare her to my ex husband and i haven't been with him for 8 yrs sometimes its just hard to get someone out of ur system specially during the holidays. good luck and have a great christmas

Answer 10

if you love her and she is not in another relationship do you have any way contacting her take her out 4 the holidays and show her a nice time or find a some inexpensive place to take her but make sure it not a dump then tell her in a romantic way that u love her and u need her i you life that your life is incomplete with out her good luck always show her how much she mean 2 you

Answer 11

Get some counseling so you can get to the root of the issue here. If the relationship is over and she has moved on, you really don't have a choice. Come to grips with reality. And then begin to build your self esteem. One must love them self before you can expect someone else to love you. If you don't see anything within yourself that is worthy, no one else will see it either. Good luck and God bless****