Your current wife and ex-wife meet and actually like each other. They have lots in common.
How do you feel about this? Are you all one happy bunch now?
Ladies you can answer. Tell me about the experience.
2006-12-22 01:51:39 · 25 answers · asked by Belize69 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
It happens alot. It isn't a bad thing, just don't get involved in any drama that might happen. You are no in the middle of these two. They have a separate friendship from whatever they have with you. This isn't a love triangle.
So just enjoy that you and your ex are on good terms and your wife has a friend.
2006-12-22 01:57:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes as the female here, my ex husband comes over all the time and I am with someone else and have been for some time, it was a little awkward for some time but it got easier, I mean we have a daughter together and we try to be a family for her especially on the holidays, and ya know what I think we are better friends now than we ever were lovers believe it or not, and I will never have feeling's for him in an interment way again because that part of our life is over and we both moved on, as long as your new wife doesn't mind, I mean "why should you" as long as the old one (wife) isn't causing any problem why not (better to make friends than enemy's') especially in a divorce if ya know what I mean. LOL P.S. Little strange at first but it get better, and if you think that's bad,...wait till little miss nosey that lives somewhere around you See's it and drops her teeth (so well worth it) If you catch my drift (other people just can't imagine that) and the people that you don't like , that are stairing You just give them a big smile and wave when the 3 of you are together Once again So well worth it (people should mind there own business anyway I think!LOL Best of Luck It ain't so bad really! sunnydays
2006-12-22 10:06:01 · answer #2 · answered by sunnydays 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I get along with my Ex's wife very well, You should consider yourself lucky, would you rather they fight?
You see, once your ex and you no longer have the same feelings for each other and you become friends there is no reason she should not be able to get along with your current wife.
They both have experienced the same good qualities in you, so they have a common ground.
Not all ex's are nasty!
2006-12-22 11:06:49 · answer #3 · answered by unknown friend 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course they have a lot in common...YOU MARRIED THEM BOTH! What is wrong with them becoming friends? If you have children especially. My ex and I always remained close, when we both remarried, the four of us always were together for holidays and the like. My daughter has thrived from this since there was never any fighting. One united front. My ex recently passed away. My husband and I have been there to support his wife emotionally and we still consider her part of our family.
2006-12-22 10:17:02 · answer #4 · answered by Bev 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I've not experienced this and even if my ex and my current wife met, they are absolute polar opposites. So, this isn't even a remote concern for me. But if I were in your shoes, I would just roll with it. As long as the two of them are getting along, it should have a negative impact on your relationship with your current wife. So I wouldn't worry about it.
Best of luck and Merry Christmas!
2006-12-22 10:01:19 · answer #5 · answered by Colonel Angus 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My 2 ex's knew each other.
When it came to picking the kids up or dropping them off, the 2nd one would of course tell the 1st to spend the night before his long trip back.
I wasn't impressed at all having to "cook dinner" for 2 husbands!!
But they thought nothing of my feelings, so i had to suffer.
A guy i am dateing right now, I've corresponded with his ex from online. I kind of like her, and he's not happy with it at all, but hey, he's the one who was lieing to both of us about not seeing us, so I figure he is sowing what he reaps!!
2006-12-22 09:57:23 · answer #6 · answered by peggin_beast 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would think alot would depend on how/why you are divorced now... and truthfully if you have children with your ex it can be very beneficial.... your current wife shouldn't have a problem with your ex, or hate her just because you couldn't get along with her, if she has just met her, then let her form her own opinion of your ex...
don't be childish.... grow up!
2006-12-22 09:56:16 · answer #7 · answered by Dena 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That would give me the understanding that you have chosen two women who are a great deal alike, this happens a great deal of times. actually more often then people realize.
If there are children involved then this is a very good thing. it shows that both women have a great level of maturity. Lucky you! God bless****
2006-12-22 09:58:35 · answer #8 · answered by ? 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
both of my exes knew each other from work, and my first ex quit working there. but when he stopped in and i wasn't there (we all worked there together at one point) he would talk to my other ex and they were actually starting to get friendly. it freaked me out cuz at the time i wasn't talking to my first ex and the other one would never tell me what they said.
2006-12-22 09:56:18 · answer #9 · answered by pikachu 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Omg that has happened to my husbands mother, after she got married to a man, his ex wife, and current got along so much, that my hubbys mom got a divorce from him. its was crazy.
2006-12-22 09:54:40 · answer #10 · answered by ~*Jenny*~ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋