i cant stop thinking about that person iknow this not going to comr true but i atleast want that person to be my friend to whom i can share everything what should i do
2006-12-22 01:37:36 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
its normal. i was only 10 when i liked this boy, but i never really wanted him to know cuz i wanted to enjoy it all by myself. now i'm 26; i'm still secrectly attracted to men around me....my boss being one of them and i really enjoy thinking about him! theres no harm in talking to the concerned person.
darling whatever you do DONT get involved at this age.........just enjoy yourself!
good luck!
2006-12-22 01:53:52 · answer #1 · answered by B.B. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U R 14 years old & U R attracted 2 someone in the opposite sex.
Ur question is not clear enough 4 an answer. Anyway here R some steps U can take to sort out ur problem. Keep looking at the person for some days and see if the person is showing any interest in U. Meet the person and talk 2 him/her of ur attraction towards him/her. See if the person feels the same way like U, then only go ahead and become friends. Please be careful and see that U don't break ur heart in the process. If the person concerned is an elderly person then U please forget the person concerned. If it is only pure friendship U R thinking off then there should be no problem.... Take care and God bless.
2006-12-22 01:57:37 · answer #2 · answered by shashikumar n 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At this age, what you think is needed? Study and affection from your parents. You can be a good friend. But don't go beyond friendship which may spoil your life, if that person did not accept or your sutiation was a different one which you cannot avoide it.
So think partically, Which is good to you at your age. Best study and make your parents a good friends and share to them friendly and do let your parents know about your friends too, If you are making a friend with the person whom you know. Don;t hide anything from your parents for your own safety.
If you feel more attracted to him. Best you be away from that person. No offence here. If you started loving him, and if he didn't love you, you might feel bad and get depressed and your life, study , everything is spoiled.
At your age, You should study. That is what i wish. Coz in future, You cannot expect your friends or relatives or even your own brothers and sisters to help you. They go on with there life and there problems.They would not have time to help you out.Your studies are your friends which is gonna come untill your last minit. Remember this allways.
2006-12-24 20:15:42 · answer #3 · answered by Mayandi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is rather heartening that at least, you have yourself admitted that 'it is not possible'.
Yes, at this age, you must be concentrating upon your studies and career. Of course, there is no harm in making friends - true friends without any hanky panky.
So, I would advise you to look for good friends and enjoy long term friendships - pure & honest. Who knows that you get to know the right kind of person and at some later stage of life when you are mature enough to decide, you get a good life partner as well?
Best Wishes.
2006-12-22 18:07:28 · answer #4 · answered by sharma.kulbhushan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perfect! You know what you are doing! That solves half the problem. Rest is from advise. Concentrate on what is your main duty at this age. Develop your individuality. Attraction is time pass. Grow in your life. 1000 others will be after you. Then you taken sweet revenge of today's suffering. Alright!
2006-12-22 21:08:53 · answer #5 · answered by auditorsudhakar 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you DO know that its not going to come true, why bothering?!!!! You are too young to get involved. Since you are infatuated with this person, its not going to be easy to have the person as YOUR FRIEND to whom you can share everything!!!
2006-12-22 01:44:30 · answer #6 · answered by Ebby 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds to me like youre way too sheltered or maybe a staunch believer in some religion. Maybe you should talk to your parents about the way you feel. Its NORMAL to like people. I started likeing boys at around 10.
2006-12-22 01:41:13 · answer #7 · answered by himynameisbob 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Take life like badminton play- start with love all, so that you do not end up loving one only.
2006-12-25 20:47:53 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
as long as its not the same sex just make conversation dont come on like your hitting on them that will scare them off and thats not what you want have fun with it and run with it
good luck on your new friendship
2006-12-22 01:43:44 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok as u told its a normal feelin....go wid dis person,crack jokes..hav a long chat...don reveal ur luv soon...wait 4 a few days...let d relationship get better..den one fine day...tel u like dis person so much.....but don b nervous...and b urself......my best wishes 2 u......
2006-12-22 14:59:22 · answer #10 · answered by ovya 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋