2006-12-22 01:34:14 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Arts & Humanities ➔ History
..Why get married?
As I have read, everyone is saying "As long as your wife knows and is okay with it."
In my opinion - I don't think it's right. At first you think it's just a "netfriend" then they become something more. And then you can't get enough of it.
The list goes on and on. You don't think you like the person in a sexual manner, but really... we all know the truth.
I'm not assuming your going to be doing things with this lady or not. But I'm just saying, usually when you meet someone off the net it's because of a reason. And usually not always the greatest reason.
And honestly, why bother waste your time with someone else when you can be taking your wife out for dinner or something.
Netfriends can be fine, but really depends who it is, and reason why your meeting up.
Usually people online are weird and just pure idiots (most of them, haha)
Well, My opinion - hope I helped.
2006-12-22 02:00:16 · answer #1 · answered by emcintaggart 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If there is any risk that his wife might interpret it as some kind of unfaithfulness, then he should think of the possible consequences for his relationship with his wife. If he wants to have a female net friend and meet her and so on, he should be open about it and tell his wife so that she does not get suspicious or jealous. It may help to put himself in her shoes: would the man like his wife to do a similar thing?
2006-12-22 10:48:06 · answer #2 · answered by Beng T 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does you wife know you have a netfriend? Why don't you bring your wife with you?
what are your intentions? is she, Just a friend, or do you two have explicit conversations. If you two are meeting because you are verbally making eachother excited, then, no...I wouldn't meet up with her.
I've seen several marriages suffer from computer based relationships and there is nothing but suffering for everyone involved.
If you love your wife, bring her with you...Or don't go at all.
2006-12-22 09:41:20 · answer #3 · answered by Dreaux~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Very dangerous. I'd say no it is not alright. As a married woman I would never meet an on-line male friend.
2006-12-22 09:56:41 · answer #4 · answered by Elizabeth Howard 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No! How would you like your wife to meet with another man? If your not happy in your mariage I suggest you get out of the marriage before you end up paying through the nose! No one like a cheater!
2006-12-22 09:47:49 · answer #5 · answered by KIM A 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You got to be very wary about who you meet up online. Even if you’re a guy that can take care of himself, the girl could be lying about her age and she could be underage even if she says she’s older. A guy almost got in trouble for meeting a “woman” he met in a club. It turns out she was underage but it wasn’t his fault. She made herself looked older via makeup and smutty dress. The judge ordered her to dress as she did at the club that night (same clothes, same make up). If she did not, he would throw the case out of court and put her in jail for contempt. They found the guy not guilty but it was a close one. Another case was two guys that use to chat with each other in an online forum. They hung out in the outside world and found a beautiful Asian Indian schoolgirl. They kidnap her and killed her for fun. The only people I would meet from online are people I went to Marine Corps bootcamp with from the same platoon/company, the ones that I grew up with in old my old neighborhood, the ones I went to school with, and long lost relatives.
2006-12-22 09:51:57 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the two people meeting are able to keep things in the proper perspective...sure why not. Life is short. However, keep in mind honey that you may not be able to control the relationship. In either case...think things through.
2006-12-22 09:40:48 · answer #7 · answered by sapphire_velvet 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as:
1) he tells his wife
2) it is a friendship that he has with this woman and nothing more
Otherwise, there is no reason why a man and woman can't meet up as friends.
2006-12-22 09:38:27 · answer #8 · answered by willow oak 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That depends on if his wife knows and the reasons for the meeting...
2006-12-22 09:36:37 · answer #9 · answered by soulgirl76 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hell No!!!!!! That is wrong. A married man should be focussing his time on meeting up with his wife/family....not some chick he met on the net.
2006-12-22 09:38:04 · answer #10 · answered by Yumica T 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋