2006-12-22 01:17:09 · 20 answers · asked by neutral 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Desperation and the ability to say she has a man.
2006-12-22 01:21:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
That would depend on why she wouldn't give him a second look 30 yrs ago. Maybe she has just grown up and realizes that there is more to that person and that looks are only skin deep.
It's whats inside that counts, anyone that chooses a person on physical appearances only is very shallow and will end up very lonely when the get older and loose their looks which is inevitable.
Or maybe he changed too and she now see's something that wasn't there 30 years ago.
Either way it should not matter to you, she is not your wife any longer.
2006-12-22 11:30:35 · answer #2 · answered by unknown friend 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he's a good guy. Kind, accepting, respectful, loving, generous. All of these things go a long way after being in a bad relationship for a long time. She may be at a point in her life where what kind of man he is become SO much more important that what he looks like. She may have found out that looks can be deceiving!
2006-12-22 09:21:23 · answer #3 · answered by ? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why did you divorce? Where you the one that walked away? If she walked away , I know it is hard not to care , about her throwing her life away, but you have to give up caring. She has made her bed now she has to lay in it. I know the feeling, I worried about my ex husband health for 37 years, when he ran off with my sister . He now smokes, drinks and parties all the time even worse than when we were together. I did not want him to die. I am now at the point 4 years after he left can say , I will not worry myself over him anymore. I don't want anyone to die, but he is the one killing himself not me. You have to look at this the same way . You can not do anything about her throwing her life away. It is hard after all those years. Just take it one day at a time You will always care but less and less each day. Good luck and God Bless
2006-12-22 09:38:20 · answer #4 · answered by springer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she's looking for a man to cling on. Or maybe her taste has changed. 30 years is a long time.
2006-12-22 09:22:26 · answer #5 · answered by Hanna 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Isn't love shallow? It's a pure biological phenomenon. The most intelligent creatures on the planet are still slaves to their own bodies. Love is overrated.
2006-12-22 09:24:02 · answer #6 · answered by iknownothing 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Probably you have not kept her satisfied enough. Not in terms of love you guys would obviously love each other to have been married for so long. But in terms of lust and sexual responsiveness! She may have found that with another man.
2006-12-22 09:21:27 · answer #7 · answered by Someday 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because looks have very little to do with it, when we are young there are alot of people we may have passed by, that we might find special now. people change, we don't remain the same, through life we seek different things, at different times in our lives, as different times require different needs.
2006-12-22 09:22:32 · answer #8 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
She sounds mental (probably went mental when she divorced you or you divorced her because she was such a nut.) Be glad you are rid of her.
2006-12-22 09:22:15 · answer #9 · answered by victorschool1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People's interests and taste's change over time.
2006-12-22 09:20:52 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋