On the other hand, men who are cool and confident are viewed as "boring" and "too nice".
Why is this? Do healthy, well-adjusted men need to start being obnoxious jerks so that women will like them?
2006-12-22 01:14:23 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
Don't worry Mike, I don't care for loud, rude, obnoxious men.
No rebels for me. Anyone who feels like they need to throw their weight about and make rude spectacles of themselves are considered bullies to me. He can be a bad boy in the throws of
passion but other than that, I much prefer the fun loving, shy, quiet types. Happy Holidays Mike!
2006-12-22 01:19:22 · answer #1 · answered by Van T 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Depends on the women & where you are observing this behavior. If you are observing this out at the club or bar, I'm not suprised. Maybe you just need to find a place where you can meet more sophisticated ladies. Please don't change. I don't think that loud, rude men are sexy at all. I'm very annoyed by them. They are either just trying to get attention, or they are trying to make up for a lack of personality. I'll take the cool, confident man. Confidence is very sexy.
2006-12-22 01:24:01 · answer #2 · answered by mrauscher74 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Actually, I'm the complete opposite. I can't stand cocky, loud, obnoxious guys. The truth is that good guys do finish first. Women do want a nice guy; they want a nice guy who could be a bad boy, but isn’t. Women love a man who appears confident. They are attracted to men who take risks, and take the initiative to meet them. There is a fine line between being exciting and daring vs. being rude and careless. Bad boys are all about packaging; they look good and sound good, but are usually not what women want for a long-term relationship
2006-12-22 01:23:33 · answer #3 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Not all women like loud, rude men. I prefer quiet, brooding, Aragorn types. Cool and confident sounds like James Bond, and we all know how successful he is with the ladies. The question may be, why do you like women who like loud, rude men? I don't think you should try to change. Be yourself, and the right woman will find you.
2006-12-22 01:17:59 · answer #4 · answered by CJ 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I used to feel this way, too. Then I found a beautiful, wonderful woman with a good head on her shoulders. Now I am happily married. Be yourself. Have patience. And forget about the girls that are looking for jerks. They are not worth having anyway.
2006-12-22 01:19:06 · answer #5 · answered by Mr. Taco 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
From my experience, that changes with age. Girls from 16-25 have goo between the ears. When they get older some change.
2006-12-22 01:17:38 · answer #6 · answered by farmhand 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I didn't know they did. But, any woman who did like loud, rude men wouldn't like me......but, that's OK, I wouldn't like them either.
2006-12-22 01:19:53 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
haha no, please dont! the sexy bad thing will wear off when the woman gets in a relationship and realizes the guy is a jerk
2006-12-22 01:16:41 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
well im one of those guys that are confident and im definately not boring :)
2006-12-22 01:17:10 · answer #9 · answered by nick w 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i like loud, rude, dirty men.
2006-12-22 01:16:51 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋