Im a girl with a little more to love but get self concious at times around my boyfriend.
What do guys think of similar girls, do i have anything to worry about?
2006-12-22 00:59:49 · 35 answers · asked by Carrot 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Im a girl with a little more to love but get self concious at times around my boyfriend. He thinks I'm great and loves the way I look.
What do guys think of similar girls, do i have anything to worry about?
Its probably just a silly girly complex
2006-12-22 01:12:54 · update #1
which ones? some do and some don't. you can't really stereotype with these things. if he didn't like you the way you are then he wouldn't have become ur boyfriend in the first place or he would be hinting at u constantly to go on a diet if he felt you would be better off without the curves.
2006-12-22 01:05:11 · answer #1 · answered by sum_random_gal 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I know how u feel! obviously your boyfriend is happy with u tho! i think most men prefer curvy women anyway and i think sometimes women think they are bigger than they are because of pressure to be thin, but i wouldnt worry im sure your man loves u just the way u are and im sure u look fine u just need to be more confident.
If it really bothers u tho maybe try and find some kind of exercise regime to help u lose a few pounds? NOT because u need to lose weight, u should be proud of however u look but to help u feel better about yourself.
2006-12-22 01:11:06 · answer #2 · answered by BABY BELL 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
relies upon on the way you're defining curvy. fat isn't curvy and you're no longer fat so i'm assuming you have a superb pair of breasts a defined waist and hips? i do no longer think of guys care lots approximately length yet extra relating to the popular of what you definitely have. i'd particularly be a length 10-12 with a effective physique than a length 6 without **** waist or ***. You sound stable to me :) i like narrow and curvy, no longer skinny and not fat.
2016-12-15 06:09:07 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on the guy! I know plenty of guys who would take a curvy girl over a skinny girl any day. Some guys are would prefer the skinny girls too, but then again, some guys think really skinny girls are a turnoff. Don't lose weight for what guys will think of you, if they don't like you for who you are then they are not right for you anyways! Obviously it doesn't bother your boyfriend if he is with you in the first place so don't let it bother you!
2006-12-22 01:08:19 · answer #4 · answered by Katie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Curvy girls may be nice to look at, but trust me, the beauty of a girl goes well beyond curves. Curves are only one factor and by no means the most important.
For most girls, curves eventually go away as they age, but true beauty continues for a lifetime.
BTW, my wife has more to love also, and she is the most beautiful woman I know. I could not imagine ever being with another woman.
2006-12-22 01:07:07 · answer #5 · answered by Toms777 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Personally the use of the word 'curvey' annoys me, because it only realy applies to people like Kelly Brook, Angelina Jolie etc. Lets be honest curvey means you have all the bits in the right places e.g.a decent butt and set of boobs and are slim everywhere else. Fortunatley most men are not that superficial (or could never get a woman that perfect).
2006-12-22 05:31:36 · answer #6 · answered by charlie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
of all yhe guys I chat to they all prefer curvy women.long ago it was a sign of fertility and there still is a certain caveman about us.in a pub the other night we all liked the curvy girl even though some were more pretty.I wouldnt worry and be happy to be blessed with curves!Maralyn Monroe was a size 16
2006-12-22 01:13:32 · answer #7 · answered by tomcat9139 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
all the feed back you have got is good. I used to be a size 16 and looked awful!! Ihad my children and went down to a size 12! But i think it was the confidence that it gave me that got me my men! Im now in a good relationship, i work as a barmaid and love the attention i get, even tho im not stick thin!!!!
2006-12-22 02:45:15 · answer #8 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys love curves, stick women horrible!! If your worried about it lose a bit of weight in the gym (diet rubbish cop out.) Only do it for yourself & visiualise honestly if you'd actually feel better with a bit of flabby off. If so go 4 it, if not don't worry about it, take action!!
2006-12-22 01:07:38 · answer #9 · answered by A . Z . 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Men I know prefer a voluptuous, curvy body on a woman. I think we are preyed upon by commercialism showing stick-think girls as the "ideal". Why? They are just walking clothes-hangers. A woman's body was meant to be soft and curvy, so if you have it, flaunt it, honey!
2006-12-22 02:01:11 · answer #10 · answered by Sassy OLD Broad 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋