we r 3 weeks together and he left her coz of me, yesterday she called that she is 2 months pregnant!!!!!!!!!! what to do?
2006-12-22 00:28:33 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
he is sure that she is a liar and doesn't want to be with her. in this 3 weeks she has tried everything to get him back, but this is too much
2006-12-22 00:35:40 · update #1
what if she is really pregnant, how to handle that, what next?
2006-12-22 01:03:59 · update #2
Before he does anything for her or the 'baby', make sure he gets verification of her pregnancy, and request a paternity test!!!!
2006-12-22 00:49:26 · answer #1 · answered by Terri 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he left her because of you ,he will leave you for some one else.Don't brag on the fact that he left her for you for that only brings bad luck to you for what goes around comes back around.If she's pregnant,you'll have to wait until the child is born to check for paternity.You should get out of this or you will end up a single mother,soon.That's not an easy future for you or a child.Get it together and don't be so desperate that you steal another woman's man and find a man with better character than one who cheats.
2006-12-22 00:36:43 · answer #2 · answered by punkin 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Her game is as old as time. She still care for the guy and will do and say anything to keep and get his attention. I dont think he ended the relationship in a good way thats why you have this drama. He cheated on this women to be with you. You know what goes around comes around. Lets see what you will do to push him into the arms of another woman. Do think that it want happen to you. I am sure she thought the same way.
2006-12-22 00:45:28 · answer #3 · answered by justturning40 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing for you to do. You've only been with him for 3 weeks--you probably don't even know his shoe size! I've been married to a man for 10 years and I still don't know him. If he accepts responsibility--he's a good one. If he tries to act tlike it's not his and then after the baby comes--he doesn't play the father role--he's a jerk and less than a man.
You never want a man who doesn't take of his mother or his kids.
Take it from me--as the girlfriend--keep your mouth shut, sit tight and WATCH him.
2006-12-22 00:33:43 · answer #4 · answered by reeses30135 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is not really much you can do but wait and see if she is telling the truth. If it happens to be true, then your boyfriend and her will have to decide what step they want to take. I am sure he will stay with you no matter what. Just try to be supportive. He most likely was not cheating on you, it can takes weeks to find out if your pregnant. You'll be okay.
Happy holidays
2006-12-22 00:34:15 · answer #5 · answered by AnnaG 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If she is, and it's his, he needs to step up and be prepared to become a dad. One thing that you might want to think about is that he is willing to leave intimate relationships when something better comes along or he simply gets bored with the person he's with. Is that the kind of person you really want to be with? That question is really important if he doesn't take his responsibility with the child he created. Best of luck, you have a lot to think about. Hope it all works out for you.
2006-12-22 00:35:39 · answer #6 · answered by barbiedart 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell him to go and sort it out...if she is pregnant he should take care of her and the baby.
Women need to stand together and send the message to men that they have to be responsible. Put yourself in the girls shoes.
2006-12-22 00:31:30 · answer #7 · answered by JadeNicole 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think he should just really make sure thats his baby and if it is and you two still want to be together then stay together just tell him to be there for his baby.
2006-12-22 04:10:57 · answer #8 · answered by sparklin06mama 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That stinks. Nothing you can do. If she is prego with his baby then he will have to decide does he want to have a family with her or does he want to stay with you and be a part-time Dad.
Depends on him.
2006-12-22 00:31:58 · answer #9 · answered by AnswerGirl 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you can get knocked up to , oh joy for the world people as stupid as u
2006-12-22 00:30:32 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋