I have ended the affair I was having, it wasn't even that hard really..............i guess doing the right thing isn't always.......
still, I love him madly, but I am determined that that is it....
Are you all proud of me?
2006-12-22 00:26:58 · 41 answers · asked by CHARISMA 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Well done and be proud of yourself too
2006-12-22 00:28:54 · answer #1 · answered by braveheart321 4 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Good job, but you need to focus on something other than him or having ended it with him or anything that can remotely be connected to him. Cold Turkey - remember.
How about focusing on making a new Christmas Tradition like walking the neighborhood checking out Christmas decorations and going back home having some hot cocoa and watching a cheesy Christmas movie all in one night. Or drop by and visit friends to just say "Sorry I can't stay, but I wanted to personally drop off this Christmas card and wish you a Merry Christmas"
2006-12-22 04:38:59 · answer #2 · answered by snack_daddy10 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kinda yes and no, I am proud of you for finally making the right decision and yet I will never understand how people can do that. If you love someone that should be all you need, I know it is easier to preach than to practice sometimes but maybe you ought to re-assess your current relationship. If you are happy and love him then stay but if he is not enough for you maybe you should try and find someone who is, and finish with him first! You will only end up hurting him, and yourself, if you are not careful.xXx
2006-12-22 00:41:18 · answer #3 · answered by shepherdess7980 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One of the hardest thing s to do is end something when you still feel for someone, but at the end of the day if you dont love yourself no one else will . Never let any one make you feel worthless. although none of us reading this knows the reason your ending it.
2006-12-22 00:41:14 · answer #4 · answered by gilly 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes ending an affair is good. But do u love the guy that u were cheating on? Did the guy u were cheating on make u happy? Did this guy u ended it with make you fell like u were wanted?
2006-12-22 00:32:19 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
i dont think proud is the word but do accept credit for doing the right and lets face it,,moral thing.he was worse than you but at the end of the day,,you took a look around your life,,decided you are nobody,s second best and removed this cheater from yourself,,who can chastise you for that?
2006-12-22 00:31:44 · answer #6 · answered by lex 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Yes - I am proud of you and proud of myself It does get easier. Hang in there you will find someone else and then you wonder why you were ever with him
2006-12-22 00:46:04 · answer #7 · answered by Redhead 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Let's look at it this way : " there were two people, who love each other madly, and they were meeting and enjoying each other, no harm done to anybody" and you ended that. am i proud of you? (and i am not your ex-lover)
2006-12-22 00:33:43 · answer #8 · answered by w0nd3ring2 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
How long has it been? You claim it wasn't hard yet you still love him madly. My bet is that it isn't over, not by a long shot.
2006-12-22 00:31:48 · answer #9 · answered by hot carl sagan: ninja for hire 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You can love him madly if you went with someone else. You should end it now as you will do it again....
2006-12-22 05:57:14 · answer #10 · answered by Sponge Bob Square Pants 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Could you elaborate on this? Why would you end a relationship with someone you love dearly...unless one of you is married?
If you or he (or both) are already married then congratulations are not in order. We must all use ethics, morals, and values in this world so why would or should one person be the exception?
If you and he are both single....then why end it?
2006-12-22 00:46:31 · answer #11 · answered by slick chik 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋