did i make the right decision?

Question

i decided not to have a girl friend until when i am ready for marriage, what do think about it

Answer 1

I think t hat's a bad idea. Relationships take practice, and you don't want to go into a marriage without some real relationship experience. Having relationships is a great way to become ready for marriage. That doesn't necessarily mean having sex, though. If you want to save your virginity until you're married, that's excellent.

Answer 2

I think it's a bad decision. Dating is really important. I always say you don't know what you want in a spouse until you know what you don't want. You will only realize what you do and don't value in a relationship by dating.

And of course there are things that you know are important to you like education, religion, etc. But by dating you may realize that a sense of humor is more important than a degree, or that you can't really deal with a sports fanatic or a trendsetter.

Answer 3

I think that we date people so that we can decide which type of person we want to spend the rest of our lives with. As we mature we always need to make these comparisons in order to understand what we find attractive and what characteristics we desire in a long term relationship. By dating we can practice and practice is what leads to eventual success. Dating can be compared to auditioning for our eventual life partner.

Answer 4

boy you're cutting your nose off to spite your face. Limiting your options. When will you know when you're ready for marriage? Life will have passed you by and all the life experiences will have passed you by too.

I really think you should re-evaluate your thinking and keep your options open.

Answer 5

That's exactly what I thought I would do when I was still in College. Then I met this really lovely girl. I thought to myself - If I court this girl and I get rejected, so what? I didn't plan on having a girlfriend anyway. So I courted her and I was successful. She served as my inspiration in school (I graduated MagnaCumLaude). Now we are happily married for 20 years, and I still love her so much. My advise - good plan, but if it happens just like it did to me, don't ignore it. It may be good for you!

Answer 6

u r right in your decision becoz,each n every girl would expect that she should be the first girl her husband loves as every man does, but c to it that u dont delay your marriage to much, as marriage has to done n da age it as meant for. This is my opinion. hope u understnd my concept.

Answer 7

Wow. I suppose you can decide that....but, what if you meet that special girl? What's wrong with dating and not getting serious? IMO you need to date and gain experience to be able to handle marriage.

Answer 8

nope. you are making the wrong decision. because relationships and sex are just like anything else. you get better at it as you do it more often. i am not saying you should be just going in and out of relationships endlessly to get better at them -- but you do need to get in and out of a couple before you can learn how to handle it and yourself in one.

when i was younger and in my first relationship. i sucked at being a boyfriend. i was insecure. jealous. i always thought every little thing was about me or us or a problem of some kind. i used think and do some very stupid things. as you mature and become more experienced you also become more secure and become more understanding of women and more respectful of them.

Answer 9

not a good idea.....date, have fun, learn what you like and don't like....when you are ready you will find the right person....good luck

Answer 10

Who are you going to marry if you don't have a girlfriend, a blow up doll?