what should i do??

Question

i like this girl in my college but i couldnt chat with her frequently. she is same class as me. so, everyday we meet. but the problem is, i just say hi and talk very little with her. in my opinion, she might know and realise me but she dont feel that i'm close with her. also, i'm kind very shy person and phobia in front of her friends. IF she always go out with just few her friends, then it ok to me to talk to her personaly but she always go out with 5-6 her friends. i just sms her in handphone. so, everybody please help me!!
show me how to get closer with her atleast.... =)

Answer 1

Pass her a note in class and ask her out and make it clear that you want it to be just you and her.

Answer 2

You say you are in College yet you speak as though you have yet to complete grade school. Your first and foremost task is to learn how to speak, write, spell in general communicate. This girl isn't going to want to have anything to do with someone who isn't going anywhere in life and I can tell by the way you ask your question that you have a lot to learn with regards to the English language. You are better off trying to be a friend first and waiting to see where that goes before you try to get close to this person. I honestly believe if you learn how to speak you won't have a problem with shyness. It shouldn't matter how many people are around her because talking to her should be easier than writing and asking this question of a few thousand people who are going to be reading what you have said and knowing that you need to learn how to communicate first.

Answer 3

When I was at High School, there was this boy that had a crush on me big time, what he did to get my attention, he wrote me a letter and put it into my locker. That got my attention pretty dam quickly, not to mention it was very flattering. why don't you try something like that? With writing a letter it makes it more personal and you can say how you really feel without saying it to her face. In this day and age sms and emails are the trend with communicating, try someting slightly 'old fashioned' like a letter and see what happens. All the best!

Answer 4

People like you worry me ,,,,, You claim to be in college ,,,,,, Have you read your post ? It's a third grade level attempt to get a thought across ,,,, I don't know how to read typo ,,,, It makes no sense to me at all ,,,, I hope you aren't trying to be come a doctor ,,,, If you are trying to figure out a way to impress this girl then you'd better not send her a note or anything else you've composed ,,,, You would wind up blowing yourself right out of the water ,,,,

Answer 5

when you see her even if she's with billions of her friends just go to her and say hi then ask her to have a word in private. if she agrees then tell her that you like her,
if she likes you back she will find time to talk to you.
maybe you should ask her for her phone number and tel her how you feel on the phone. if doesn't agree to give it to you then give her yours or do what i told you above.
just be brave and do your first step and things will just go by its self afterwords
Good luck

Answer 6

you just like my boyfriend...
he just sms me all the time, but i don't know why i fell in love w/him... give your attention trough sms .. then slowly approach her, chat with her friend too, just relax.. then ask her for a date, good luck

Answer 7

Dont feel shy .... , be brave
Go and talk to her straighty , no need to hide urself from her friends. Have guts...
GOOD LUCK

Answer 8

gt her email her numba write her a note
keep it short + smple

Answer 9

I do agree with Santa's helper .