you'd like to know better,and does this approach work?
2006-12-21 19:29:55 · 10 answers · asked by tony m 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
be a gentleman..
2006-12-21 19:32:10 · answer #1 · answered by talla 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, yes, and YES! There are SO MANY ways to be a gentleman to a woman you want to get to know better. While you're at it, why not strive to be a gentlemen every second of every day with everyone you meet? Without going into it too deeply, being a gentleman is doing everything in your power to make her feel as comfortable as possible and respecting her as a woman and a lady. And remember, being a gentleman doesn't make you soft or weak but it DOES make you a man. Besides, if you show her a gentleman, she'll want you to show her your not so gentle little man...Oops, how'd that slip out? ;-)
2006-12-21 19:38:15 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Courtesy, kindness and sincerity are qualities humans should aspire too. If you are just putting on a act to get a girl she will eventually see through that thin veil. If on the other hand you are truly sincere, then any girl/woman would have to be blind not to notice. So many men lack these qualities they really stand out.
Women are perceptive and wily. Everyone deep down just wants to be noticed and loved. Be kind, be truthful, listen twice as much as you speak. Try to be attentive and actually think about what she says and try to respond intelligently. I think this approach might work.
2006-12-21 19:37:50 · answer #3 · answered by Ahab 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's a hard question to answer for all girls/women. Because all women are different. We don't all want the same things. The best way to be a gentleman to a woman is to not call her a girl, but respect her as a woman and listen to her and show some concern for her, and she let you know what she needs, and if you do that, you'll get what you need from her as well.
2006-12-21 19:33:16 · answer #4 · answered by ░▒▓► Aqua Fires 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To be a typical gentleman, here's several things I particulary like: opening doors, paying for dinners or movies, offering jackets when cold, making her feel safe, calling her to make sure she gets back home okay, doing thoughtful things.
Also, by being interested in her. Like, asking her how her day was. Little things like that. A lot of people don't take the time to do that much anymore, so when someone does, it is greatly appreciated.
2006-12-21 20:08:24 · answer #5 · answered by girlygirl8 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be a gentleman! Dont be pushy or obnoxious. A gentleman makes a person feel good, comfortable. Keep that in mind for all things and you should do fine.
2006-12-21 19:38:13 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Open doors for her, smile at her, be friendly to her friends, only a little, u dont want her thinking u r interested in her FRIEND!if u r lucky it just might work.
2006-12-21 19:32:35 · answer #7 · answered by viren k 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i like a man who is a gentlemen.he always lets me walk ahead of him,pays for things for me,listens to what i have to say.thats why i love him.these are some of the things that attract me to a man.a real man.and he is a real man.
2006-12-21 20:51:01 · answer #8 · answered by debra 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
to be a smart gentlemen
2006-12-21 19:34:10 · answer #9 · answered by gigi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
uhmmmm be nice to them i think
2006-12-21 19:32:36 · answer #10 · answered by HI!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋