including sesual relations
2006-12-21 19:08:19 · 17 answers · asked by J. D 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
say goodbye!
2006-12-21 19:11:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anarchy99 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
After 27 years, if you don't even have a little idea what the problem is, then that probably IS the problem. You probably had "blinders" on for the last 10 or so years. I was married 23 years and wanted out. The way I was treated, I can't believe I waited THAT long.
2006-12-21 20:13:55 · answer #2 · answered by Nancy D 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
for not wanting to be with you 27 yrs - this feeling abviously did not come abt over-nite - it built up inside for a while- u may never know . What u do know is that there MUST have been signs
indicating this- U probably never thought the worst - in plain honesty ? took things for granted?
it all depends how serious the reason for her to Not want to be with U , if u were given time to un-do the things that she did not like - cause as with her , so is with u or anyone -
THERE IS ONLY SO MUCH U CAN TAKE
so if u know in your heart and be honest to yourself - dont find excuse to blame anyone - if its too late - THAN IT IS TOO LATE
SHE FOUND HER ANSWER _ YOU MUST FIND YOURS
AND KISS YESTERDAY GOODBYE _
TAKE CARE
2006-12-21 19:21:15 · answer #3 · answered by michael 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should have a good talk with her and find out what the problem is. Seek some spiritual marriage counselor for advice.
27 yrs is a good long time....there must be some way to salvage the marriage. good luck
2006-12-21 19:11:36 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
There are obviously reasons for this, find out what they are, try to fix them, if you cant then you move on and I know this is not what you were looking for but, really, what else can you do? Just move on and continue life. Life is too short to be unhappy.
2006-12-21 19:11:26 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
She does not want to be with you bcos of unsatisfying sexual relationship, which she is probably getting from somewhere else. Just leave her, for your and her happiness, as things are not going to improve or change. let her settle down where she wants.
Good luck!
2006-12-21 21:02:45 · answer #6 · answered by regatta 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u need to accept it for whatever reason, don't blame yourself for it, and let her go and don't beg or plead or try to make sense out of an illogical situation. just go seek therapy for yourself and try to change yourself, as u can't change anyone else. focus on yourself and making changes in your own life. u may have to leave the marriage, just don't take it too personal, as it isn't about u, doesn't have any reflection on u.
2006-12-22 02:04:17 · answer #7 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry about this. I know that 20 years is such a long time, but think of it this way, you still have time. Cherish it
2006-12-21 19:33:23 · answer #8 · answered by ~*Jenny*~ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u just anylise urself why she wants it? must b there is some bad habbit of urs or anythingelse which she does not like. if u really want to leave with her then try to some comprmise. afterall she also has been changed for you
2006-12-21 19:14:02 · answer #9 · answered by kashish d 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Could be menopause. Just a phase. Be patient and understanding.
2006-12-21 19:30:11 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
see ..there may be so many reasons behind it and u'r the best judge to judge it..but for everything answer is give her space..let her go..if she comes back again then she's urs..otherwise she was never..be happy
2006-12-21 19:28:14 · answer #11 · answered by talla 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋