which I probably shouldn't have because some people thought I was lesbian and bi but I am not don't get me wrong I have nothing against people who are gay but it is just not me and some people still think I am but the rumor for the most part has faded what should I do to prove that I am not bi or lesbian?
2006-12-21 18:39:24 · 14 answers · asked by Taylor 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Plus he took pictures so there waas proof on myspace but I made him delete them.
2006-12-21 18:40:13 · update #1
I SAY KISS A GUY INFRONT OF HIM AND EVERYBODY BUT THERE'S ONE MORE SOLUTION KISS THAT GUY EVEN THOUGH YOU HATE HIM !
2006-12-21 18:45:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Taylor, I am really concerned about you all together. I have read some of your questions, answers, etc. For example, 4 weeks told people you were 14 years old. You have also told people you are 13 years old, 115 lbs with muscle wanting to lose weight to 103lbs because you thought you were overweight. You are asking about tanning products, eyebrow shaping, and now crazy parties involving same sex encounters. Only God-knows what else…
I have read some of your comments to other people and you seem very intelligent, empathetic, and charming but,
Where are your parents??? Don’t they have to approve of your account on answers.com? I am sure if they knew just a dime of the stuff you were talking about on here they would fall to the floor!!! Sweety, you are just a teenager. Go talk on the phone. Hang out with your girlfriends. Have sleepovers. Please, stop trying to grow up so fast! I know…you hate it when adults tell you this but I was just a teen not too long ago and gosh do I wish I could be your age again. I know….blah blah blah. Really, enjoy being young and beautiful. It does not last. Promise.
2006-12-21 19:46:04 · answer #2 · answered by psyjessica 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are 13 and you are making out with a girl on a dare. well there are nothing you can do to make people believe you isn't bi or a lesbian. you shouldn't have never did it. you see a night of passion can leave to a life time of pain. that will be with you for the rest of your life. next time don't do anything stupid like that. even if you get a boyfriend they will still think that.
2006-12-21 19:33:01 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay, so you got a little wild--that happens. But, part of playing the wild girl is accepting the consequences. Yes, people are going to talk about you, and if you take it personally, the talk will become cruel and hurtful (people like to kick people when they are down, ya know?) . If you hold your head up, flip your hair, make a joke about your actions, laugh, and walk away, then people won't mess with you. They will let it go. You got attention, and whether it is going to be good or bad attention is up to you and the way you handle the rumors.
2006-12-21 18:46:01 · answer #4 · answered by mad_madison_maiden_x 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just play it off like it was a once in a lifetime kinda thing.... it was a crazy party and things got out of hand. Play it real cool and people will forget. Kids always seem to experiment a little even if you don't hear about it or see it. But going to wild parties at 13 is what bothers me.... if you tend to get out of hand at these parties try not to go. 13 is awfully young even though you probably think it's not.
2006-12-21 18:42:48 · answer #5 · answered by Me 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are what you are.... and what lesson did you learn?
13 years old trying to be grown. Look at you, have a image already, and you want to undo what was done. Where were your parents?
Stay young and not dumb. Once you perform the acts you have, you bought yourself a one way ticket to slut ville. What were you thinking? Yes I am pissed about your actions. You play with fire you will get burnt.
That was just stupid. And now you want to be seen as being innocent?
2006-12-21 18:46:42 · answer #6 · answered by Tired of being Mr. Nice 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Aha, at my middle school being bi was cool. Im still 14 but the best thing to do is just to let the rumor die out.Dont do anything to spike up the rumor,just keep it cool hun. :)
2006-12-21 18:44:20 · answer #7 · answered by Dixie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is really no way to prove that you're not. Your "friend" shouldn't be such an A** and should be your ex-friend. Oh wait, was it a friend that dared you and your other friend to make out? ah, well, it doesn't matter, but next time think before you act. It will pass.... Trust me, I've gone through worse.
2006-12-21 18:43:36 · answer #8 · answered by greatkid809 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you can't undo it, so don't cry over spilled milk. We all do stupid things - just try not to do it again. And don't start making out with every guy that comes along just to try to kill the rumor. Take your time and do the right thing.
2006-12-21 18:45:42 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It wasa silly thing to do. All you can do is to tell the truth to people that you did it for a dare.In time the rumour will fade.
2006-12-21 18:44:39 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Even though you're a bit young for that stuff you don't need to worry. It will be forgotten by the time you'll marry!!!
2006-12-21 19:35:36 · answer #11 · answered by Vette 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋