2006-12-21 18:37:49 · 11 answers · asked by Heell yeaah! 3 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Will power.
2006-12-21 18:41:39 · answer #1 · answered by Néant Humain 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A lot of people are speaking out of their *ss. First off what is a personality and how is it developed? Your personality is based off your environment and your interpretation of it. And the things you deem good to extract and use applicable from it.
So if you don't like your personality change your environmental factors. Exercise more, read more, gain skills, surround yourself in an intelligent group of people and it may just rub off. You want to become smart sit in the library. You want to build get tools.
Habits are developed by your personality. If you want them to change get motivated. Why does the bird migrate? We change to a given circumstance because we find what we are doing needs to be changed for the better.
If you feel you need a change go for it. Don't take all this B.S. that you don't need to because you very well may need to. I don't know the circumstance so I can't say you're totally fine just love yourself. Is it society or you? It's up to you to deem what you think is right or wrong for yourself. And if and when change is necessary you will do it. Don't think changing your personality is impossible because it is far from it.
2006-12-22 08:19:44 · answer #2 · answered by obscure 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all, be aware about the reasons you want to change for. Do not lose your own self over social beliefs or personal fears.
Your personality is basically determined by your environment, your genes and your education, because they built your thoughts, habits, lifestyle, decisions you make...
If you want to change what you are now, you have to first find out WHAT exactly you do not like about yourself and realize WHY you do these certain things and WHY you act in a cetain way in a given situation.
When you make yourself aware that some things you do are only habits formed long ago whose reasons or origins are no longer related to your current beliefs, then it makes it easy to start changing these habits and find new things to do, new goals to achieve that match your present thoughts oin what you want to do with your life.
Try to make yourself aware of what you are doing and why, then start changing little things accordingly and you will already be changing little by little.
If you need more details, let me now.
2006-12-22 02:57:42 · answer #3 · answered by baerchen80 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear freind, you need not to change your personality. What we see is that you are not appreciating yourself very much. You and only you can determine how you feel. But if you are wanting to as you say, change your personality, it is very simple. Set forth that intention! For the next thirty days, in the morning say " I intend to change my personality to what I would like to see, to what I would like to be", within that single act, you will begin to attract to yourself people, events and circumstances so that you may collect data and change your personality to your liking. There is no faster or more fulfulling way. I can garentuee you there is not a shred of evidence any where in your universe contrary to what you've just read. There is great love for you here. We are complete.
2006-12-22 03:15:57 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you are being hard on yourself. Is it really your 'personality' you don't like, or is it just some of your habits? Think about what attributes you would like to be part of your personality, then study people who have those attributes. Work out how you can make these attributes your own. BUT remember to be yourself, if someone is telling you that you are not good enough, know that they are wrong. God made you and He doesn't make mistakes.
2006-12-22 02:48:43 · answer #5 · answered by Ripplediane 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Start by trying to love yourself. There is good in you . Try to focus more on this. Expand your mind. Put yourself in situations your forced to meet new people. Others tend to be able to see the good in you even if you can't. When others give you compliments accept what they tell you because people don't have to waste their breath on saying such things. You have to learn to love yourself because your stuck with you until the day you die. Start doing things your good at chances are theirs a group of people who can do the same thing, you'll feel better about yourself and you'll meet people with common interests as you. Good Luck.
2006-12-22 02:51:00 · answer #6 · answered by Jane 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to figure out exactly what you do and don't like about yourself in terms of personality. Identify why said part of your personality is problematic. Then map out a plan to reasonably modify your personality over time and be patient with yourself.
It may just be that you need to learn to like who you are and then lend a critical eye to modifying your weaker points.
2006-12-22 02:44:31 · answer #7 · answered by Mosaic 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm sure you are ok the way you are ! I dont think it's possible to change ones personality! I guess you could pretend...for a while...but this I am sure would make you unhappy!
2006-12-22 02:44:45 · answer #8 · answered by INC0GNIT0 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately, you can't change your personality. You are born with it. If you don't like who you are, try to do new things. That's really all I can say. Good luck!
2006-12-22 09:57:49 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ever considered Plastic Surgery ? It might make for a grand start....
Peace out and a merry leary christmas that's not timothy
2006-12-22 02:42:43 · answer #10 · answered by dogpatch USA 7 · 0⤊ 4⤋