If you were a straight male, and had sex with a gay guy for money, being the giver NOT the taker...how would you get over it?
2006-12-21 18:20:44 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Hi, Everyone does things in their life that they are ashamed of or that make them feel uncomfortable when they think of them. Stop beating yourself up about it and go on with your life. Tell yourself that it is in the past, tomorrow is another day and go on from there. Forgive yourself because no one is perfect. You have your whole life ahead of you so live it to the fullest, think positive thoughts, be happy and do for others. You will then feel good about yourself which in itself is healing.
2006-12-21 18:39:15 · answer #1 · answered by sunshinesue_1999 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best idea is to just try to forget about it because if it only happened for money, then you're obviously not gay yourself.
Good luck!
2006-12-21 20:34:27 · answer #2 · answered by Corrida 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are on a hard path.......but it is good for the growth of society... you have taken on a taboo and will be one of the ones to help the culture accept peoples differences.... My advice is not what you want to hear but remain honest, and tell anyone who asks,,,do not be secretive as it will eat you up....you do not have to advertise it but do be honest,,,,, get over it by self-acceptance......and the world and all events have a purpose,,,, for growth,,,,
2006-12-21 18:34:20 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Good going there!
Maybe try not to think about it?
2006-12-21 18:27:52 · answer #4 · answered by Néant Humain 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would use the money to get really drunk!
2006-12-21 18:23:38 · answer #5 · answered by INC0GNIT0 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
by developing self esteem and self respect.....forgive yourself...
2006-12-21 18:25:42 · answer #6 · answered by Happy Summer 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if it bothered you that much it wouldn't have happened
2006-12-21 18:25:48 · answer #7 · answered by swolfshields 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋