what can a man do to prove his love and sencerity after the trust has been lost?
2006-12-21 18:00:17 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Day in and day out BE trustworthy. There is no time line as to how long it will take to "earn" back. Words AND actions will show her that you can be trusted but it will take time. Be Patient and Sincere! Good Luck!
P.S. Just to let you know,there probably will not be another chance after this. Be honest and the relationship can grow stronger than it ever was before!
2006-12-21 18:05:09 · answer #1 · answered by lady 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Repetition is the key. Keep apologizing for the mistake that you have made and convence her that you will not make the same mistake ever again. No matter how hard she is on you, stay by her side and wait it out because she will forgive you eventually but, she will be mad for awhile and she will take it out on you for awhile. This won't last forever. People have it built into them to be forgiving. Although, it takes some people longer than others to get over things. Be completely honest with her about everything. If you really love her, you will be willing to do anything to keep her. So, be patient and wait it out. If you can do this you are a REAL man. Make sure you call her over and over until you get through to her. Don't wait for her to get in touch with you to work this out. That's just not cool at all.
2006-12-21 18:17:26 · answer #2 · answered by airtightreality 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's sad to say but probably nothing. That is so hard. You seem like a person that cares because you are asking. Most men don' even care. It will get better, but just know that every day she will think about it. She will dream about it and everything else. Now though you will probably develop a complex and constantly wonder if she's going to pay you back. Just remember you made the mistake and it's up to you to fix it. Just keep apologizing and letting her know that you now realize how much she means to you. Every time you see the hurt in her make her know how much she means and how much you love her. Good luck and God bless you for trying.
2006-12-21 18:11:30 · answer #3 · answered by liberty girl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only time, nothing else will prove it.
If the man is really sincere about it he can win back the trust of his woman, but don't expect that to happen fast, you have to be patient and understanding, that woman was hurt, it will take a long time to heal the wound, but it can be achieved only if the couple want this relationship to go on, and they have to work on it together .
2006-12-21 18:21:47 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No one is an authority on Love or relationships, every relationship is different.
Regarding your question, the answer would all depend on what caused the loss of trust.
What ever it was correct it and time can heal the hurt and repair the trust if you are both willing.
Good Luck
2006-12-22 04:44:15 · answer #5 · answered by unknown friend 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Depends on how the trust was lost, did you cheat on her? Did you lie?
If you truly love someone you be 100% honest with them, talk out the problems. You want to resolve the friction between you, restore the trust. If you lied, explain why and promise not to again. If you cheated, that's a big offense, you really hurt her, you broke the bond of a special relationship and that is hard to repair, she may never trust you again, but again, be honest, tell her why it happened, how it happened, and talk it out, ask her what you can do to restore your trust? Go to counselling if she wants, you have to show you are sincere.
2006-12-21 18:05:03 · answer #6 · answered by Tina of Lymphland.com 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
This is tough...
You need to not make the same mistake again, be willing to do counseling or whatever it takes to repair your relationship, bring romance back into the relationship, and remind her that you love her daily.
Sometimes when we are with someone for awhile we take it for granted that they just know we love them. NOBODY just knows. EVERYBODY needs to hear it. Not just verbally either... actions speak louder than words.
Expect her not to trust you for awhile, eapect it to be a painful process, but if you work the issue together it can be fixed.
2006-12-21 18:26:48 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am not an expert in this topic. I think taht you love her. Just wait for some time. It si the biggest healer and try to make situation better after some time.
2006-12-21 18:09:29 · answer #8 · answered by Sabyasachi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You got to earn back the trust, nothing can do that for you but honesty, time and her giving you the chance to make it up to her. usually it is never the same as it was before, women never forget when they're trust has been dented.
-NmD!
2006-12-21 18:07:25 · answer #9 · answered by NoMaD! 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u have lost your trust then go to ur love and tell her ' for u only i am moving from your life because now u dont want have any relitionship with me but remember one thing i always love to u unfortunately i have lost your trust. but i will wait for u ever.'thats it.trust me friend without you she will care for you and she will come back to u. u have to keep patience. all the best
2006-12-21 18:25:47 · answer #10 · answered by kashish d 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋