Dose liking feminine men make me bi?

Question

I am a female and have always had a strong attraction to feminine looking males - make-up, tight clothing, the whole bit. Also I enjoy gay porn type things and get turned on seeing men kiss and mess around, especially if they are feminine, though not in drag usually. I am so confused as to whether this makes me bisexual, especially since I seem to be attracted to bisexual and gay men with out knowing their sexual orientation... don't know what this means...

Answer 1

I just think it means thats what turn you on,...

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Answer 2

Well...there are SOME girls (myself included) who like a man who has some effeminate qualities. When watching tv, my favorite male characters are always the ones who experience more emotion (more often than not they are the bad guys too...). As for bi men...I personally don't know if I could date someone like that, because some of them just use it as an excuse to get together with all kinds of people, and of the bi men I have seen, they aren't so much for the "commitment" thing. BUT that's just b/c I haven't had the pleasure of meeting so many diverse people...where I live diversity is still developing. And I don't date, so that's kinda out of the question anyway. Someday I hope to meet a guy with whom I can discuss the very fabric of time with, as well as A Clockwork Orange. I am very open-minded, so whether he likes women or both genders would be fine, as long as he could commit. Hope this helps! -Pisces2222

Answer 3

If you have issues with gender, then I'd say MAYBE. In other words, if you feel as if you're a "man" trapped in a woman's body and you're attracted to feminine guys and women then yes you are definitely bi. If you're a woman attracted to feminine people in general then I'd say no. Mainly because the gender of the person has nothing to do with why you're attracted to them. Perhaps it's their submissive behavior or mannerisms that attract you.

Answer 4

You just happen to like feminine men that doesn't mean you're bisexual and there's no problem with a straight woman looking at gay porn after all she's attracted to men, it's just like a straight man getting turn on by lesbian porn and I have to tell you that it's refreshing to know that there truly is someone out there for everyone because there are feminine straight men who dress in women clothing but they just happen to like women.

Answer 5

I don't think that your bisexual although if you like women you might want to think about that.. I think your attracted to feminine or gay men because they are safe. You can hang around them and you know they don't want anything from you as in sex or dating you can be thier friend and be yourself and not have to worry about them wanting in your pants or any other motive.. I am 33 years old and I am a gay man and I have alot of friends that are girls and they told me thats why they love gay men is that there is no pressure I am like one of the girls. So maybe you are attracted to men but unsure agout having sex or dating so a gay male friend is taking the place of a man you might want to have in your life right now. Just don't fall in LOVE love with a gay man that will only hurt you in the end. But use them as sounding boards and if you do find a str8 guy you want to date and he likes your gay friends and is n ot offended then maybe thats also a good way to judge someone as a good person to accept others as they are. It doesn't hurt to have alot of friends. I hope i didn't ramble on too much and I hope i helped you Good Luck

Answer 6

It doesn't make you bi (maybe you are, who knows). It just means you're probably more of a dominant type of person and prefer a partner who is less dominant. Nothing wrong with it or weird. Just be careful; alot of girls go after softer men and then expect them to turn into tough men when it's convenient for them. Just be clear on your wants and needs.

Answer 7

No, that does not mean you are bi. If you are attracted to women, you are bi. If you are attracted to feminine men, that is just a personal preference.

Answer 8

OK First of all relax. Many men like lesbian women , that does not make them bisexual or gay. However there is some element of liberation when dealing with another gay person , it relaxes you and opens sexual boundaries. You may feel the same, provided the following apply to you (1) You want your male partner to be sensitive + have a good sense of humour (2) You certainly dont want him to be stuck-up and traditional etc etc (3) You want to be able to talk to him about anything , i.e. no subject is taboo - not even the wildest kinky stuff (4) You want to be able to trust him totally with ALL kinds of secrets i.e. He should listen to you with due respect & not reveal it to anyone else (5) It would be nice if both of you had common interests like clothes shopping , watching movies etc. Am I correct ?

Answer 9

I'm in a similar way, cept I also like butch or masculine women so for me 'bi' is fairly obvious.

But from what you've said, I would guess that you're straight. You're just turned on by guys who defy convention (or at least a specific convention.)

Answer 10

Uh....No. I always thought being bi meant you liked girls and boys. Lots of straight women like feminine men, men in drag, gay porn, the whole bit. Look in to it a little more.