I am what some people call 'emo' and I get heartbroken easily. i also cut myself. i dont know how to get the pain to stop. you may call me a phyco but i also live in this imaginary fanisty world, and i am most of the time only happy there, i can be happy sometimes in reality. but i dont know how to make the pain stop
2006-12-21 17:41:59 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Arts & Humanities ➔ Philosophy
Definitely seek professional help from a doctor.
I also get hurt by people easily. What helps me to get over it is to admit and realise my emotion. Too often we try to be too strong by suppressing what we feel. We try not to fall apart. We try to push it back inside, but then it hurts even more. What helped me is telling myself that it's OK to feel what I feel. If some person hurt me and I feel hurt this is how I feel. I feel upset or sad. Sometimes I even write it down: "this and that made me feel that way". When it's real bad I try to notice the physica symptoms as well - do I feel it in my chest? Do I feel it in my stomach? After I'm done feeling it, it kind of wears off, and then it's not so bad, and then eventually it's gone.
But - definitely go see a therapist.
2006-12-21 19:23:32 · answer #1 · answered by Snowflake 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry you're in pain. I think you should seek professional assistance, such as a doctor or a therapist. There are also some resources on the internet for people who self injure which can also provide support - one such resource is www.selfinjury.com . If you do a search for self harm or self injury you can also come across other resources as well. I hope you feel better soon.
2006-12-21 18:31:12 · answer #2 · answered by some_guy_times_50 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This should be easy considering you already live in "this imaginary fantasy world." I suggest you smoke some of that Hocus Pocus! It will stop the pain.
2006-12-21 21:15:58 · answer #3 · answered by Souled Out 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Talk to somebody (friend,doctor, consoler, etc.). You may just need to talk to someone.
Get out as much as you can. Find a hobby. Find a bf/gf. Just anything to get your mind at ease. That and try (you do need to try hard too) to see things in a positive light, even when there seems to be no silver lining.
2006-12-21 18:03:14 · answer #4 · answered by Somebody Real 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I understand, really. You cut yourself because that is a pain you CAN deal with and KNOW will heal.
Please, now, find someone to talk to. Are you a student? Talk to your counselor about finding a therapist. Are you working full time and have insurance? Check your manual and find a therapist in your "covered" book.
Or, talk to your doctor. Maybe he/she can refer you to someone.
If nothing else, you can check your phone book.
Good luck and blessed be.
2006-12-21 17:55:45 · answer #5 · answered by Voodoid 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think you need inner healing. Seek professional help. They will help you to overcome the pain through a healing process.
2006-12-21 18:04:30 · answer #6 · answered by yy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Try Chronic or Hawaiian Bud...
2006-12-21 18:27:24 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
do something to take your mind off of everything just something fun go watch a funny movie go for a drive anything just something fun it helps me
2006-12-21 17:48:03 · answer #8 · answered by jbird 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Deal with reality and don't run from it.
2006-12-22 05:00:57 · answer #9 · answered by Vicky29 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋