I think i might have a personality disorder, can anyone relate?

Question

So in my mind i spend several hours a day (Not contiguously) focusing on how women love tall men, and find them hot far more then they do men my height 5'6". I have lost my faith in any type of god, and really don't want to have any replies based around such beliefs. Since i dont believe in god, i believe we are animals, and i find myself to be a carrier of jeans that are overtime going to be slowly breed out of the human race. (as tall people are more likely to father children, and get far more sex with far more partners), so with that rational in my mind i constantly Analise over and over all of the rational reasons for suicide based on the fact that i am a weaker animal that is only going to be breed out of the gene through the course of time. also many of you will say that i need to go see a therapist, but i have been through 3 different ones and they dont believe there is anything wrong with me, and make me feel like they feel like i am wastering their time. any ideas???

Answer 1

It sounds like you WANT something to be wrong with you. I really doubt there is... Maybe you just learned about natural selection at school :P

Answer 2

Listen, maybe you are after the wrong women.

Many women do not care about height. I am 5'0 and my boyfriend is around 5'8-9. I love him and his height. I love him most of all for who he is. Height doesn't even enter my mind.

Focus on if your personality if you want to catch a girl- be a gentleman, be confident, smart, show people that there is more to the person than height! And people will respect you and like you for it.

And another thing- THIS IS YOUR LIFE! You only live once, and you may never be your desired height. Think that in 3 more decades you wil be aging and and in 6, you will be ending your life. Focus on being an attractive person on the inside.

Answer 3

Although you believe you are being rational and analytical, that belief is actually incorrect. That is because you are taking a relatively small 'scientific' example and using it to further your own insecurities, while actually ignoring any conflicting scientific evidence that might disprove your theories or ideas.

Although people are getting taller through selective genetics, they are not actually eradicating any sort of genetic possibility. That is because, even in parents who are both tall, both carry recessive genes for being short. Likewise, when they have children, the likelihood of their children being tall is good, but it doesn't mean that all of their children WILL be tall. Dominant and recessive genes are simple possibilities, like a six-sided dice. Even though the dominant genes take up more numbers than the recessive (4 for dominant, 2 for recessive) every toss of the dice can result in either result. It is simply that, in the long run, probability states that it is likely that there will be more tall men than short.

Also, not every woman is attracted to tall men. I am 5' 8" (maybe even 5' 7") myself and have had more problems psychologically with women than physically. It wasn't my height that was the problem, it was my insecurities and belief that I wasn't good enough, that kept women from approaching or being attracted to me. Also, if one thinks one is unattractive, one does things to make one unattractive (not taking care of personal hygene, walking with one's head down instead of up) so that others have no incentive to respond, which makes one believe even more that one is unatttractive, which reinforces the cycle, yada yada...

The one trait that seperates 'stronger' animals from 'weaker' ones is not physical but psychological: confidence. Act confidently and people will respond to your confidence. Build your confidence according to your strengths (mine are communication and analysis) and then you won't have to worry about not being able to attract a mate. Sure, that mean's I probably won't be able to attract the sexy cheerleaders attracted to football players, but there are lots of sexy girls out there who melt for a guy who knows the right things to say (I've met some of those too).

Don't igonre the evidence that it takes more than genetics to snag a mate.

Answer 4

Honestly,this sounds more like a complex or issue or how to call it,height complex like Napoleon had,he just didn't have too much time to think about it.Part of it seems a bit like a frustration,almost deprivation(and sexual frustration)But all those things you said don't show me too many signs of a personality disorder(you'd have to hallucinate,have obsessions etc.to call it mental illness.)This also depends on your age,if you are under 19 or 20 years of age,I'd say you'll be ok soon,just need time to realize girls find short men very attractive too(by the way,I hate tall guys and I am girl 5' 9" tall...).If you are older,I'd say you maybe went through some bad experience in relationships,at work at school etc. but they still don't show any mental illness.
You don't need a faith in any God,there are many atheists around here,you first have to believe in yourself.You don't sound like a dumb person,you just have to find yourself and the right people to be around you.
My advise?Read some books,don't read psychology,read something positive,go out,do some sport...something that will make you think of something different.One thing that's important.Suicide is not a solution.We all have good and bad times.We all are animals.But what makes us people different from animals is our brain that's able to find a solution and to figure out things,like I said,you sound like a smart guy,you''ll figure out and you'll be fine.
And one question from me:who the hell told you women love tall men?

Answer 5

If you cultivate an indearing personality women will not care about your hight. I'm 5'7 and I have had crushes on guys shorter than me plenty of times because they shine in other ways. Intelligence and self confidence is key. No confidence, fake it. I hear the longer you pretent the more you start to believe. And I don't have any faith in God either though I do believe he exists, but regardless, you might as well just stick around to see what happens or better yet make things happen. I wish you peace and happiness.

Answer 6

Science agrees with you: We are all animals. That shouldn't be too disappointing, though, and none too surprising, either. You make a non sequitur in your reasoning, however; it does not follow that if God does not exist, we are all animals (even if God did exist, that would not negate the hypothesis that all human beings are animals; also whether God exists or not, it could be logically possible humans are not animals).

Height is hardly the most important determinant of sexual attraction. Social dominance, intelligence, financial stability, general appearance, emotional stability, and a level of sensitivity are all factors at play.

Of course, if I reason you out of one obsession, more might appear to replace it. You should seek a specialist who treats mood and anxiety disorders and who has some success in dealing with schizotypal patients.

Answer 7

I am a 5ft female, To be honest... I have always looked for guys out there that would suit my height. The I just it`s not as hard being a short female, but it always bugged me as well. So I tell you what I did... I came to Japan to find myself a nice short Japanese guy. And guess what... I found myself an an american guy who is about 5`4 who also complained he is too short. But we are so happy that we found each other.

So my advice... come to Japan while they are still small... I think they are getting taller and taller... but yeah... I`ve never been so happy.... and my partner and I look like a dwarlf couple. Battle of the dwarlf...here we come!!!

You`ll find what you need the moment you stop thinking about it.

Answer 8

You want women? Different clothes each day. Confidence. Sparkle in your eyes. Have personal goals. Be assertive 5 days after her period. Be sweet and attentive other times.
Do you demand a beautiful woman? Get to know her and she will become beautiful beyond your fondest dreams. That goes both ways.

Answer 9

LOL your wrong the average height in men has been steadily decreasing. Maybe thats because we are in buildings more? You just have some sort of infatuation with your height.

Answer 10

Napoleon, haven't heard from you in years. Waterloo...wasn't it? Well...got to be going. I've got a pretty tall order to fill over at Josephine's Pink Bar and Grille.
You wanna come?

Answer 11

personally i dont like tall men id perfer someone your height , also im not really sure what youre asking but did you ever consider that you may be alot smarter than the average human
and not have a personality disorder?