I walked in on my wife having sex with 3 men and she made me apologise and leave the house what should i do? I love her so much and even said sorry what should i do?
2006-12-21 17:16:45 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Maybe you should get rid of the girlfriend you have first...check out your own questions out before asking what you should do about your wife kicking you out..........get a life dude.
2006-12-21 17:52:45 · answer #1 · answered by slick chik 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so sorry... I know how you feel. The world as you know it has ended. Get your papers together my friend. I don't think this is even an affair because it doesn't take 3 men to fulfill a women's emotional needs. I don't think this is curiosity because it was three men,she made you apologize,and leave the house. She's mean spirited and she doesn't love you. You love her, but she'll never love you back. Go stay with a friend.enlist the help of a church,maybe. Start working on stregthening your soul and healing your heart. Tell yourself you didn't deserve this and you will do better in the future. Don't ask questions. Your questions don't have answers. Build a support network,join a support group. I am so sorry, my friend.
2006-12-22 01:55:42 · answer #2 · answered by vince 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Pal ,,, how many other people do you allow to walk all over your ,,,, In bed with one is bad enough but three ???? Give me a break here ,,,, Your retort to finding her with three men should not have been an apology but something to the effect or as to say ,,,," Apologies ,,,, ?? I don't think so ,,,, If you want these three guys then let them take you home and support you now get the hell out of my house" ,,,, I don't believe in hitting women but there are sometimes when they really need it and earn it ,,,, This woman ,,,, your wife ,,,, Should not only be slapped and pushed around ,,, she should get a serious asss kicking with maybe a broken bone here or there and physically kicked out of the house and into the streets ,,,, It's obvious that that's where she belongs ,,,, Who in hell does she think she is ,,,,??? And what the hell is wrong with you ??? ,,,, What you should do is drop this #@&$## whore like she was a hot rock and get shed of her altogether ,,,,, If your love is so strong for her that you can't see your way clear to do that then I really feel sorry for you ,,,, You need help but not the kind that you'll find here in this forum ,,,,,,
2006-12-22 02:41:21 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is so messed up. She made you say you are sorry?! She's cheating on you BIG TIME! Sounds like she has an addiction problem and who knows what she has picked up from the "men" she has been with. I know you love her, but what about you and your dignity? Stand up for yourself and tell her how this is COMPLETELY WRONG and sinful and that it wont be tolerated and leave. There are so many more fish in the sea that will treat you the way you should be treated with love and respect. And that's obviously NOT what you are getting now. I say pick up the pieces and move on.
2006-12-22 01:23:15 · answer #4 · answered by jovijunkee 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh my! I have to ask the same question? Is this a serious situation???? That is crazy. You caught her cheating and she managed to make you feel bad about it. WOW!. I am not usually this blunt with my responses but you need to find someone, who loves and RESPECTS you, because what she did is not only disgusting and dangerous for you, but she does not have an ounce of respect for you. Turn the tables. How would she react if she caught you with 3 women. Come on. What did you have to apologize for? She is obviously not wife material. It sounds like you truly love her so I feel so bad for you, because you probably don't ever realize how crazy your situation is. She is not for you. Try to get out.
2006-12-22 02:33:25 · answer #5 · answered by Smooda 1119 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As sorry as I am for saying this ur marriage is over. I would suggesst that u speak to a lawyer & go for a separation then divorce ! She is using u!! I understad u love her but if she loved U she would n't be sleeping with other men. I also suggest that u get tested for hiv as well as std's since u don't know who she has been with!! Sorry but it's the truth & I'm sure others will agree w/ me!! Try to have a happy holiday!!
My ex did bascally the same to me. He talked w/ girls on the net & they called his cell all the time (he said he was talking to family when I asked. He even lied to me in front of my brothers). 1 day he left his phone @ home. Later that night it rang so I answered it ( I thought it was him it was his work number) & it was a girl telling me she had a real good time w/ my ex for the past few weeks & wanted to know if they would be meeting for the weekend again. I told her that my ex & I were engaged. She told me that they had been seeing each other for 2 months & that he had broken up with me as I was no longer in the picture. He had been meeting her on Saturday near her house & spending the day with her instead of going to the city like he told me. He ALWAYS went to the city to visit his bestfriend on Saturdays!! Till he started cheating on me!! I asked him when he got home & that night I kicked him out. They are now married! He is out of my life for good!! Even my family was upset because of the way he used me!!
Don't be a fool like I was. I trusted him & he made me look like a fool PLEASE don't let this happen to u!!
2006-12-22 01:48:56 · answer #6 · answered by Missy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
instead of being sorry you should have expressed outrage at it, why do u love a person who openly humiliates u? and betrays your kind heart. so many women out there to pick from, divorce her and find one where there isn't this much competition involved. u need to leave her and show her u got self confidence and self worth and u don't have to put up with the likes of her.
2006-12-22 08:05:28 · answer #7 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What are talking about? You left? Sounds like she not only doesn't love you but doesn't respect you either. Why would you stay with that? Don't you want to be happy? If yes then leave and get your self-respect back for heaven's sake.
2006-12-22 05:34:51 · answer #8 · answered by LC 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you still there ? I hope only long enough to type a question on this website ! Run and don't look back ! Get an AIDS test and if you have children fight for them. Don't ask questions you saw the answer right in front of your face when you busted her. As far as does she love you ?? HELLOOOOOOOOO " here's your sign" !!!!
2006-12-22 01:25:12 · answer #9 · answered by sunshine 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What? Your joking right? Tell her to get out or just leave her.Y would you love someone that does that crap to you. Go get some counseling so you can move on and find a respectful relationship.
2006-12-22 02:54:15 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋