when you're not ready for sex?
2006-12-21 16:55:28 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Be honest! This is huge in a girls life and if you arent ready, please please do not let him pressure you. It is very hard and he will probably say you don't love him and all kinds of things to make you feel you "should" Just remember losing virginity only happens once, and you will remember it for the rest of your life. Also having sex has its risks, so when you do please use proper protection. If your boyfriend cant accept that you arent ready for sex, then you deserve better. A real love will wait until you are both ready, but most boys won't. You deserve the best and for it to be special. I wish you all the luck in the world. You are already taking the first step, you know you aren't ready. That is great you are aware and are not letting the pressure get to you. It will get harder before it gets easier, but if you feel you want to say no, you say no. Again good luck!
2006-12-21 17:01:06 · answer #1 · answered by misty n justin 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
How do you tell a boy THAT you are not ready for sex? Just tell him no, plain and simple. If he gets upset, too bad. You have a RIGHT to NOT do something you don't want to even if he says HE HAS the right to do what he wants...I have heard it all, trust me.
2006-12-21 17:00:51 · answer #2 · answered by * 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You simply tell him you are not ready for that type of relationship. Tell him you want to get to know him for him and him to get to know you as you. If he does not understand and leaves you then he is not the guy for you. You may not think it at the time but you will be better off.
2006-12-21 17:02:37 · answer #3 · answered by justcurious 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Straight up, no lies, and don't beat around the bush. Tell him that you aren't ready for sex, and if he loves you, it won't matter. If he makes a big deal about it, you don't want to be with him anyways, trust me. Sit him down and lay it out, don't be iffy or wishy washy about it, or he won't believe in your resolve.
2006-12-21 17:00:01 · answer #4 · answered by makin_the_same_mistakes 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just like that. I'm not ready right now. Tell him you are saving yourself for your wedding night. You want it to be special. You don't want him to think you are easy. How could he ever trust you if he thought you were easy? Good Luck!
2006-12-21 17:00:22 · answer #5 · answered by Becky F 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he truly loves then he would learn to wait until your ready... For u to be able to knw if he loves you... If he trully loves you more than his life he would know if ur ready... If he ask u if ur ready get out of that relationship coz ur realtionship wud not work...
2006-12-21 17:05:18 · answer #6 · answered by churva_char_chenes 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that ure not ready. Straight and easy
2006-12-21 17:22:08 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You just let him know...if it starts to happen..and you know you're not ready..say no..and if keeps on going..it could turn into sexual assult/rape...so say no..and say it with force..and if nothing has happend...make sure you have a talk with him beforehand...and if he dumps you b/c you don't have sex with him...then let him...he was just trying to get into your pants..and it's not worth it!!
2006-12-21 16:59:30 · answer #8 · answered by luvablegigglez1 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You have to be up front and just say it ...Im not ready if he doesnt like that hes not good for you because he cant respect your decision
2006-12-21 17:05:01 · answer #9 · answered by ?????? 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just tell him like that, say im not ready but don't wait until you are fooling around. if you aren't capable of talking about it then you aren't ready to do it
2006-12-21 17:09:38 · answer #10 · answered by Olivia's Mama 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋