how do you get a guy if your not all that attractive???

Question

as you could tell in the question i'm not at all pretty or beautifull. i'm normal. not pretty or popular i'm 'that girl that you always see in the halway' how can i get a guy to like me like me if i do every thing i can?

Answer 1

Seriously I would actually like to see your photo your're probably prettier than you think

honestly women are'nt meant to seek after a guys the guys are supposed to come to you. Your job is easy be yourself and love who you are have poise, confidence, maturity and respect for yourself Im telling you send me your shot and I'll tell you what will make'em go whoa!! You can call me a personal trainer/life coach.

Answer 2

Well, it depends on what kind of guy you want. Do you want a 'cool' guy, a 'popular guy', or just A guy? Really, if you want my honest advice, go for a good, decent, solid guy and screw all the athletes and such that like- they are usually assholes. Well, no not all, but what I mean is don't go for the jock-type athletes, you know, football players (99% of the time) and such. Think of a place where you'll find a decent, intelligent, and good guy. Somewhere like your school library or look into some clubs. Does this sound lame to you? I hope not. Because if you are thinking along the lines of 'thats not cool', then drop the idea now. Anyway, just had to throw that tidbit in. So go somewhere like that, I'd try your school library first. Walk in, grab a book, sit down with it, and just kind of observe. Do that for a little while, and just see who comes and goes and get a feel for the people there. Pick someone you like, and just be friendly. Do not walk up, drooling and be like "daaate meeeeee!"- just be a friend. Maybe you can see what book he is reading and do some research into it. Is he reading about WWII? Look up some Winston Churchill quotes and dazzle him. With guys like this you have to prove yourself a solid individual. That is what a lot of girls don't get. They think they can just flaunt themselves to get a guy- and there is truth to that, but the right kind of guy isn't going to care. So go there, figure out a plan, become an aquantence, get to know him a little better, and then take it from there. If in doubt, take it slower rather than faster, always be sure to keep that in mind. You can always just do it later, but you can't take things back. So take it nice and easy, and just become pals. See if you like him, if you do, take it from there. Good luck and I hope this helped you.


...it better have. *glare* jk

Answer 3

It sounds redundant but really for a person to like/love you, you have to love yourself. Don't act like a cocky biatch, just be self-assured. You DO have things to offer. Just because you're not classically beautiful does not mean that you don't look good. Play up your best features. If you have big beautiful eyes, play them up with flattering makeup. If you have nice arms, show them off. You get the idea. Always make sure you're nicely groomed (clean manicured nails, moisturized skin, good complexion, etc.). Basically control the things you can. Walk with your head held high and smile often, and you will be "that girl" in the hallway. Be friendly and as outgoing as you can and people will be attracted to your confidence and will feel at ease with you, and believe me, guys will like you. It may seem like all the pretty girls get the boys, but they have the problem that guys are more attracted to their looks than anything and don't necessarily want to get to know them. Just do what you can... wear lovely perfume, do your hair nicely, whiten your teeth etc... and people will notice you =)

Answer 4

im not pretty at all but i always get the cutest guys and its strange actually but all i can say is BE A GOOD FRIEND, never act all depressed and paranoid (guys hate those) and always be a little bit mysterious if ya know what i mean..

and for god sake's NEVER acknowledge that u think theyre cute at the beginning of the relationship because that will seriously weird things up.

good luck all the best.

Answer 5

I'm sure you are attractive...in your own way...looks and popularity thingy doesn't last long if you are looking for serious relationship...start to like yourself first before letting others to like you...i know i did not answer your question well, but this is all about self confidence...be confident with yourself and people will feel the same about you too...good luck sweetie..!!!

Answer 6

Well, first off, you shouldn't be trying to get a guy to like you . . . you should be trying to get you to like you. The key with any realtionship is confidence. Guys don't like someone who is clingy or needy. They want someone who knows who they are and what they stand for, and any guy who doesn't like those things isn't worth your time. Remember that you define who you are. Don't let the idea of needing or wanting a boyfriend define you. If you do . . . he could define you into a deep, dark, volitile, depressing, dangerous place.

Good Luck. You deserve the BEST!

Answer 7

Find something to do that makes you happy. When you are happy it shows like a beaming light to the people around you. Guys will notice it. They like happy girls, not always-need-to-be-reassured girls. I'm female and I get tired of my friends who are always worried about their looks. Looks change, it's what's inside and how you project that to the world that counts.

Answer 8

honey, there are no girls that are considered "unpretty". everyone is pretty in their own way. attractiveness comes from the quality inside you. there are lots of pretty girls who knows how to wear the right clothes, do the right make up, have got th right hair, but they are hollow inside.dont ever think that you are not like those girls so no guys will like you! thats not true! if guys wants to like pretty girls with no brains, up to them, you're way better off with a guy who lieks you for who you are.

Answer 9

An "attractive" personality is so much better than the outside anyways...... Like I heard on tv yesterday some girls are just frosting. Well...honey you're the cupcake.

Answer 10

figure out the style that suits you-all girls can be knock outs if they dress for their body, avoid "fashion" that makes you look horrible-figure out your best features and play them up, go with the best skin, a good haircut and color, natural make-up and boom now you are a knock out-so throw your shoulders back, smile and act hot. be nice, funny and smart and the boys will eventually flock to you-if you are in high school don't despair-high school boys are notoriously LAME-so finesse your personal style-consider it practice, study hard, get good grades and college is the place where you will become a " hottie"