I am 20 days late with all of the symptoms. We are both in the military. Should i tell him especially during Christmas leave?
2006-12-21 16:46:24 · 21 answers · asked by Armygirl 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
i am afraid to take a test. of course i will tell him i just don't know when. I am going to get a blood test after christmas.
2006-12-21 16:58:19 · update #1
Wait until you confirm... Or, if he will be happy about it, tell him now.
2006-12-21 16:48:03 · answer #1 · answered by Buttercup - VP Bamma Fan Club 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ABSOLUTELY!!!!
I was in a similar situation where a girl told me only after claiming she had a abortion. (Which she didn't) Then moved 6 hours away. I found out when she was 8 months pregnant. That was six years ago and I love my daughter to death. (Yes I had the paternity test) I wouldn't trade her for the world. But it was way too big of shock to go from being young to a dad in a month and i will always resent her mom. Please tell him!! He is part of the process even if you two don't work.
2006-12-21 16:54:05 · answer #2 · answered by Rob N 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you need to tell him, it is so funny I had 4 girlfriends go into the Navy after highschool within a year and a half all 4 were pregnant and went awall with their BFs. Tell him & then tell the army as you need to make sure you get care & some physical restrictions will be impossed. Best of Luck, go army
2006-12-21 16:49:57 · answer #3 · answered by notAminiVANmama 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I were you, I'd have a pregnancy test done. It's the only way to know for sure.
If the test is positive, then if I were you, I would tell him right away. The father would have a right to know.
Good luck to you, God bless you, and I hope everything works out.
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2006-12-21 16:49:21 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are 20 days late why didn't you take a test already to be sure,I would keep it to myself till I knew for sure rather than get all worked up over it if it's nothing!
2006-12-21 16:49:00 · answer #5 · answered by molliehollie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
TELL HIM unless you think he will be so mad that he would harm you or make you choose to do something you wouldn't normally do... what a great Christmas present though, I hope he is happy!! Maybe take a test first?
2006-12-21 16:57:57 · answer #6 · answered by Amy D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you tell him and it's nothing..the two of you will have worried over nothing. You should take a test to find out first. If you are then yes definitely tell him.
2006-12-21 16:50:43 · answer #7 · answered by red_shorty_76 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES YOU SHOULD you should get a test right away because say he gets called away earlier and he would have never found that out.
good luck
2006-12-21 17:56:22 · answer #8 · answered by blondebeauty 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't tell him unless you are sure (eg, a test). And don't get ahead of yourself. All things will work out in time - whatever the result.
2006-12-21 16:48:17 · answer #9 · answered by DoNNy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, why not be RESPONSIBLE and actually take a pregnancy test??? Why don't people use their brains. Take a test, see if it's positive, and THEN you can discuss it with him. Until then, there is nothing to discuss.
2006-12-21 16:49:30 · answer #10 · answered by wldntulike_2know 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. You should. If you are twenty days late it isn't something that just goes away that is really late. Tell him. And congratulaions if you are pregnant.
2006-12-21 16:48:37 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋