My girlfriend dosnt say i love you or be her usual self over the phone when shes with her friends and in our 3yr relationship,i havnt been introduced to any of her friends either online,email or over the phone.I was at her palce for a week and even then none of her friends were introduced.I feel like shes hiding me and our relationship from her friends.I cant understand why she should be like this and i get doubtful abt the relationship sometimes.I dont know if my reaction is normal or im exaggerating.She on the other hand knows all my friends as she was with me in town for 2 yrs.She is away now at her place to complete her studies.Does this in anyway mean that shes not 100% into the relationship & comitted.Wat shud i do?This action of hers is really disturbing me.
2006-12-21 15:44:31 · 17 answers · asked by anonymous 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
she has someone else on the side
2006-12-21 15:46:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
This is very familiar to me, and let me tell you from my experience, she is living two lives. The reason you area kept out of her friends lives are numerous, but most likely she has friends who like to "set her up" with guys. If she is ashamed of you, you should be set free. Maybe she doesn't want her friends to meet you because she doesn't want to hear about the fact you are too good for her. Not only is she not being 100% in your relationship, she isn't even being 50%. Dump her before you get dumped, and have all her friends that don't even know you hating you.
2006-12-21 19:01:45 · answer #2 · answered by ckgene 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Something's not right... I think that maybe your gut feeling is correct.
My boyfriend says he loves me in front of his friends all the time and doesn't hide our 10 month relationship.
Man, you've been with her for 3 years. That's a long time. She should be able to feel comfortable. Maybe she's found someone else?? I don't mean to scare you... it's possible?? Since you said she's away...
I think you should bring this up to her.
2006-12-21 15:48:18 · answer #3 · answered by ( Kelly ) 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
does she even have any friend that come over women makes friends differently then men and have you declared the dynamics of your relationship or are you just a break from the hustle and bustle of the world some women need a wing man if you can't find all of of the characteristics you desire one man you look elsewhere and if your not committed she may not see anything wrong with this
2006-12-21 16:10:33 · answer #4 · answered by MIZ BADU 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-28 03:30:13 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
her behavior is not normal at all. when my husband and I were still boyfriend and girlfriend, I wanted him to meet all my friends. I wanted to show him off because I was and still am proud of him. and I wanted all my friends to like and accept him, and get to know him. I'm really not sure what the problem is, but I can assure you there is one. and you're right to be concerned. somethig's not right. the two of you really need to sit down together and have a heart to heart talk. that's the only way to get to the bottom of the problem.
I wish you the best.
2006-12-21 15:56:11 · answer #6 · answered by atiana 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel you on the question, I would feel the same way if my man wouldn't introduce me to hhis friends because I'm a very jealous person. I introduced myself to his friends, family and everyone else because a month since we we're together he was scared to show me around and tell his friends about our relationship. I think you should talk to her about it but take it slow... don't rush into it or push her because then she'll think you don't turst her.
2006-12-21 15:54:24 · answer #7 · answered by babiskillz00 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would bring it up to her face to face. She is hiding you. You don't even know if her friends are other males or not. If she were truly in love with you after 3 yrs., she should be willing to show you off, not sweep you under the carpet until it's convienent for her.
In any of my relationships I was anxious for my friends to meet my "man"...
2006-12-21 15:49:39 · answer #8 · answered by Kelly773 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is definitely not 100% into you.
You need to break this off, I doubt she will be fazed in any way, besides she probably has others on the side.
2006-12-21 22:17:13 · answer #9 · answered by LC 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say that if you have been together for 3 years and never met any of her friends she is ashamed of you or something. Definitely NOT normal!!! Seems like she might be hiding something.
2006-12-21 15:48:37 · answer #10 · answered by AJacks 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well ya shes hiding u from everyone eles, shes imbarresed by u (witch is very mean) and no ur relationship is not 100% its about 25%
2006-12-21 15:49:40 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋