My ex and I dated for 3 years before I decided to move in while I attend school. We recently have had many communication problems, mostly revolving around his drinking. I left 2 weeks ago after he verbally abused me in front of his guests. I stayed at a motel for 4 nights and all the while he was calling me, begging me to come back home. I decided to move back in because I need to finish school (I have 3 months left) and I don't have the money to move out on my own right now. Our agreement is that I do housework in lieu of rent. I told him that I no longer wanted a sexual relationship. A few nights later, he brought a woman home from a bar and had sex with her in the house. She knew I was there and their sex act was very loud and continued into the morning. He is actually going to continue to see this woman. My question is: Do you think he will continue to see her (which will take the sexual pressure off of me) or do you think he is just messing with my mind?
2006-12-21 15:44:17 · 6 answers · asked by roomatewoe 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
every alcoholic who verbally abuses you, is ALWAYS messing with your mind and trying to be in control. Been there done that, for 11 years i did. I know money is tight, but i would get yourself out of that situation asap.
2006-12-21 15:57:00 · answer #1 · answered by mozartbuffy69 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How did you get hooked up with such a LOSER? Do you have friends you can stay with... maybe a month with one, the next month with another, and so on? If not, can you borrow money from a relative that would allow you to rent a place for three months? You really need to unload this alcoholic jerk ASAP!!!
2006-12-21 23:58:06 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sound like he is a real d#@!head!!! I think he brought her home out of spite because you said you didn't want a sexual relationship with him. Use him for your convenience and when you are ready to go out on your own to bad for him. Jerk!!!!!!!!
2006-12-21 23:53:38 · answer #3 · answered by sarabear318 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is being a control freak . It my get worse , I wouldn't take the chance . Get out while you can.
2006-12-21 23:53:37 · answer #4 · answered by Geedebb 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's being a prick. Get out of there as soon as you can. He's upset and being a douchebag.
2006-12-21 23:47:36 · answer #5 · answered by emoguy43 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honey, what r u doing with this guy? open your eyes, he's a real jerk!!! this is wat my mum taught me, never stay with a guy who raises his hands or a womaniser....so get him out of your life, im sure you'll find someone better than him in future! take care honey!
2006-12-21 23:55:55 · answer #6 · answered by @nGeL 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋