My ex and I dated for 3 years before I decided to move in while I attend school. We recently have had many communication problems, mostly revolving around his drinking. I left 2 weeks ago after he verbally abused me in front of his guests. I stayed at a motel for 4 nights and all the while he was calling me, begging me to come back home. I decided to move back in because I need to finish school (I have 3 months left) and I don't have the money to move out on my own right now. Our agreement is that I do housework in lieu of rent. I told him that I no longer wanted a sexual relationship. A few nights later, he brought a woman home from a bar and had sex with her in the house. She knew I was there and their sex act was very loud and continued into the morning. He is actually going to continue to see this woman. My question is: Do you think he will continue to see her (which will take the sexual pressure off of me) or do you think he is just messing with my mind?
2006-12-21 15:43:27 · 4 answers · asked by roomatewoe 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
His drinking problem is always going to be a problem. If the other woman seriously doesn't bother you....than go with it! You only have 3 months to go. Invite some male friends over. Or better yet....if he is playing mind games, which he probably is, play back! Cook dinner and knock on their door while they're together and tell them you made dinner for the THREE of them!
2006-12-21 15:49:30 · answer #1 · answered by cody930 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
THE QUESTION IS WHY ARE YOU LIVING WITH YOUR EX,
IT OVER, AND YOU NEED TO MOVE ON, HE DRINKING
'PROBLEM IS NOT GOING ON AWAY . AND THE FACT THAT
HE DISRESPECT YOU IS CRAZY, IF YOU DONT WANT TO
BE WITH HIM THEN TIME TO FIND OTHER ARRANGEMENT
BECAUSE THIS WILL BE A REAL PROBLEM AND YOU DONT
NEED THAT, YOU ONLY HAVE A COUPLE OF MONTHS OF
SCHOOL DONT LET THIS JERK STESS YOU OUT. TIME
TO MOVE SOMEWHERE ELSE. AND IF YOU DONT CARE
THAT HE DOING THIS THEN LET IT BE, BUTIT SOUND LIKE
IT BOTHER YOU. HE PLAYING WITH YOUR HEAD.
2006-12-21 16:14:45 · answer #2 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
relies upon on how a lot you wanna be with him. do u extremely wanna be with someone who's wondered no matter if he actual needs you or another female? do not wait on human beings positioned your self first ..i'd. good success.
2016-12-01 01:57:09 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he wants you back.
2006-12-21 15:49:33 · answer #4 · answered by Ezz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋