which kind of gay is better, masculine or feminine?
- do masculine gays prefer feminine gays more than masculines?
2006-12-21 15:18:32 · 14 answers · asked by nnn 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
ok... im sorry put the wrong word (its not "better" ok?). I never wanted to judge. I just want to know if a feminine like me have more chances on relationship... so which gay would you be in love with?
2006-12-21 23:43:47 · update #1
there is no type of gay that is better. that's like asking if accountants are more desireable than lawyers.
2006-12-21 15:44:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I don't judge gay men based on whether they are more masculine or more feminine. Personally, I am kind of in the middle (not overly feminine and not overly masculine). I prefer the middle to more masculine gay man. I am not at all attracted to the extremely feminine men, however. Just my preference.
2006-12-21 15:32:21 · answer #2 · answered by Hmmm... 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I consider myself masculine, but not hyper-masculine. And I'm secure enough in my masculinity that I also enjoy activities like shopping and making a really nice meal. I prefer other masculine guys, but I don't think one is "better" than another.
2006-12-21 15:39:55 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Those are really out dated stereotypes. A trait exhibited by a man cannot be feminine. By definition, a trait of a man is a masculine trait.
2006-12-21 20:44:10 · answer #4 · answered by San Diego Art Nut 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Guys truly being themselves are sexy.
A masculine guy camping it up because he thinks gays are supposed to act that way is nasty...so is a feminine guy acting all butch just to prove something.
Just be yourself and you will find love.
2006-12-22 02:05:48 · answer #5 · answered by ? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I like them both. Theres a couple who have been together about 15 years, one guy is very masculine & his partner very flamboyant. But their happy & that's all that counts. I can't say I like one more than the other they're both sweethearts
2006-12-21 17:28:39 · answer #6 · answered by gitsliveon24 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
What about well-rounded guys? I'm a professional chef, work in the movie industry, decorate, arts, theatre .. and after that I will take you to buy a gun and teach you how to shoot it.
I don't think there is a given set of ideals on this topic. Behind closed doors ... nilly-willy happens!
2006-12-21 16:07:05 · answer #7 · answered by Active Denial System™ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm masculine and I like masculine guys better
2006-12-21 16:45:29 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
People are People. Everyone falls some where between these two extremes, not just gays.
2006-12-21 16:28:06 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
The "better" gay is a mature and nonjudgemental one instead of someone who throws everyone into a false dichotomy and then makes judgement calls about them. there is no hierarchy of queer.
2006-12-21 18:03:30 · answer #10 · answered by Atropis 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am masculine and prefer masculine men...especially extremely hairy men!
2006-12-21 16:44:01 · answer #11 · answered by chuck 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋