1) according to you, what are the characteristics of a victim of bullying? (not characteristics of the bully, characteristics of the victim). As in, what are different characteristics or weird things about a victim that a bully would focus on?
2) we've all encountered bullies, some are just bullied more than others. what are the emotional/personal effects a bully has had on you?
2006-12-21 15:08:04 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
I think bullies look for someone who might be smaller than they are, doesnt have alot of freinds. Won't stand up for themselves.
2.) NONE, my parents didnt raise me to follow the pack, to march to my own drummer so inside of me I am strong. Once It made me cry and the girl came back the next day thinking she was going to pick on me and I got so mad I told her to shove it up her a s s infront of the whole lunch room, she never bothered me again plus everyone knew I was in karate and being taught by a fellow student who had 4 black belts,lol
2006-12-21 15:10:55 · answer #1 · answered by BoTToms UP 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. Bullies generally only target someone they don't consider a threat, so they're likely to choose a "victim" who is smaller/weaker than them and who has an even lower level of self-esteem than the bully does.
2. A bully once made me question myself for a little while. Once I realized, though, that he was using me to boost his own self-esteem, I realized what a pathetic person he was and felt sorry for him and much better about myself because I realized he was a lot worse off than me.
2006-12-21 23:15:56 · answer #2 · answered by moonshadow 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. a victim would have a lot of (not patience, but...) tolerance. personally, i've tolerated some bullying when i was young because i didn't want to cause more trouble for anybody so i just let the bullies be what they are - that is, a mockery and a coward trying to pretend as powerful.
2. not much, if anything, it tested my self-control.
2006-12-21 23:14:18 · answer #3 · answered by Bubuchachum 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
1. Kinda nerdy, quiet, doesn't seem to conform to society...doesn't fit in, not a lot of friends, and is an easy target.
2. It's kind of scary because you don't know what they are going to do next, especially if the bully brings in his/her friends. Messes with the self-confidence, your emotions, and your mind.
Bullies are mean-spirited, hateful people who must pick on someone else just to feel better about themselves.
2006-12-21 23:17:57 · answer #4 · answered by Evie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1) A person that is different or just doesn't seem to fit in. 2) I have no self-esteem and I think that a lot of it has to do with the fact that I was picked on so bad in school.
2006-12-21 23:11:22 · answer #5 · answered by Marenight 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1) the bully usually focuses on the other being smaller and a easy target and maybe younger.
2) low confidence, self pitty, extreme anger...
2006-12-21 23:14:57 · answer #6 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is a good question, but your asking the wrong crowd here. Try asking it in another part of Y!A.
2006-12-21 23:11:58 · answer #7 · answered by ? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Umm, I dunno...kinda confusing question you've tried to ask
2006-12-21 23:10:07 · answer #8 · answered by ~babes~ 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
1)nerd like
2)hate
2006-12-21 23:12:09 · answer #9 · answered by Anita 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have no response to that question!
2006-12-21 23:10:26 · answer #10 · answered by jasemay71 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋