*I tried asking this same question earlier, but I guess everybody else is out Christmas shopping. *
I purchased a $10 gift card from Target for my friend. I feel bad because I had planned on getting her a $25 gift card instead. However, when I looked into my bank account, I realized I didn't have much. I had more bills to pay this pay period. I used the last $10 I had on me. Would you be offended if your friend gave you (from the bottom of his/her heart) a $10 gift card?
thank you for taking the time to answer. Happy Holidays everyone.
2006-12-21 15:00:00 · 12 answers · asked by sunny 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Holidays ➔ Other - Holidays
You are such a kind hearted individual, but sweetie, don't ever spend your last when it truly is your last. It's about proper budgeting and yes, it's the thought that counts, and a gift is better than no gift, but only your friend, whom you have gotten the gift card for, can answer this question. And not every friend expects or wants a gift, especially if they haven't given you one, it's like a reverse transference. They feel bad because you feel bad because that's all you can afford, except, you got them a gift, and they didn't give you one. So now that person feels bad... sometimes it is better to just give a card of thought and send that love throughout the year through your appreciation for your friend and the friendship you two share. Happy Holidays to You Kind Heart! (smiles)
2006-12-21 15:22:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If they are a real friend no, I wouldn't be offended. But, let me tell you this. You can actually give a nicer gift with the $10 then the gift card. In other words it probably would have been best to get a gift instead of the card. It would mean you took time and effort even if it wasn't for a lot and sometimes you can get really nice things for $10 that don't look $10. Good Luck
2006-12-21 23:05:15 · answer #2 · answered by dnisey64 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let's face it....money is tight these days! I think your friend should be happy with a $10.00 gift card. Sure, it might not sound like ALOT but if you think about it, she can get a cool CD, or DVD for under $10.00....or some makeup, candles, plants, whatever......there are tons of cool stuff at Target for $10
and it's the thought that counts, really. If you friend gets offended, then....that's kind of messed up!
Merrry Christmas to you!
2006-12-21 23:05:17 · answer #3 · answered by anniedawg25 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
giving is supposed to be about not how much it cost but about caring enough to give,its the thought that counts, add a card explaining how you wish it could of been more and a rain check to take her to dinner or a movie your treat when you are able to afford it.she should under stand if shes a true friend. Merry Christmas.
2006-12-21 23:14:22 · answer #4 · answered by deedee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't be offended. I would be happy that my friend had thought of me. I would be just as happy with a Christmas card.
2006-12-21 23:03:51 · answer #5 · answered by suz' 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO. Because It's the meaning that counts. I believe people are taking away from Christmas anyway with big expensive gifts. MERRY CHRISTMAS
2006-12-21 23:06:10 · answer #6 · answered by lmw 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The fact that you went to the trouble of getting her something should be enough. I'm usually happy with whatever someone gives me- even if it's just a card.
2006-12-21 23:03:00 · answer #7 · answered by cat 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not at all! Your friend should be happy you thought of her and bought a gift. The amount is not important.
2006-12-21 23:05:12 · answer #8 · answered by Bart S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldnt be offended. Just explain it to ur friend. They should understand. If not then u can always get her something after christmas
2006-12-21 23:05:07 · answer #9 · answered by Kris 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's the thought that counts. And if she is a true friend it won't matter if it were 100 bucks or 5 bucks.
2006-12-21 23:04:11 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋