i have1 best friend ive had since 5th grade and she was this nice girl stuff snd then i totally changed her & now shes emo punk and crazy, shes sooo into sex and boys are all she talks about and shes sadly not that smart & she always puts herself in the bad situation and im the one who has to pull her out, she always tells me i have changed just because i care bout my future and i dont wanna waste my time laffin bout penises and stupid words like WUMBO, she made this other best friend-sally and sally was great so great i was jealous, and then they have this huge fight so huge like ready to kill fight but this is after sally &i became the best of friends, if im on my other friends side, ill be in a dilemma since i have sally in like 5 classes & i dont see the other firnd at school at all, truthfuly i like sally beter since we got more fun and we have more in common, but my other firnd and i have been friends so long & have been thruogh everthing but were growin apart, who do i pick?
2006-12-21 14:32:53 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Well it would probably be impossible but try being friends to both and remain neutral ,,,, If that fails then and you are forced to make a decision then look to the one that shows more sence ,,,, You had this friend since the 5th grade ,,,, But it sounds like she's gone off the deep end and there's nothing you can do about that ,,,, It doesn't sound like she's much of a friend anymore ,,,,, and you can't be blamed for keeping your distance from her ,,,,, I mean you liked her as a friend the way she was not the way she is now ,,,, You can't help it if she's changed and you can't be blamed if you've had a change of heart about her ,,,, It doesn't matter how long you've been friends with her ,,,, You are dealing with the new her and you don't like it ,,,,, She has ruined the friendship between you two not you so you have nothing to feel guilty about ,,,, Once old friends ,,, yes ,,,, but you are dealing with the way things are now and the past has no bering on the situation as things stand now ,,,, You can't satisfy every one so the thing to do is do what satisfies you ,,,, If you have more in common with Sally then go for it ,,,, Pick the one that you feel more comfortable with ,,,, The loss of a friendship between you and the first girl is regrettable but it's not your fault she changed for the worst ,,,, and there's nothing you can do about it so don't let it worry you ,,,,
2006-12-21 16:52:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't pick. do not let yourself get in the middle of someone else's fight. what you need to do is try to stay completely out of it. if one tries to talk trash to you about the other one, you need to say I don't want to hear it, I want to be friends with you both. and let them settle their differences on thier own.
just remember, real friends don't turn on each other just because of a fight. now would be a good time for a little maturity.
Good Luck with everything.
2006-12-21 22:47:00 · answer #2 · answered by atiana 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Neither. Be acquainted with both of them and don't let them put you in the middle. If they can;t accept that you have friends they don't like then they suck. DOn't let them control you life and don;t feel like you have to choose a side.
2006-12-21 22:37:13 · answer #3 · answered by leena 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You don't have to pick. Why can't you be friends with both of them??
2006-12-21 22:36:52 · answer #4 · answered by Kristina 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Maybe you should be friends with both of them just because they don't get along doesn't mean you half to choose sides try it see wat happens
2006-12-21 22:38:50 · answer #5 · answered by Applekisses11 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Don't you have anything better to do than throw your stench around the place you festering troll.
P.S How's your mother? Last I heard she was working as a prostitute.
2006-12-21 22:34:38 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 5⤋