How can I stop feeling so lonely???????

Question

Isn't my question stupid? I mean REALLY, you don't know my story, I just want to see if any answers, to soothe my loneliness temporarily. lame I know. get some points what can I say?

santa, jerk, yeah he doesn't make me a priority.

thank you so much, I feel better, even though I was not expecting to? thank you, I wish I could everything you guys mentioned!!!!!!!!! that would give me a reason to go on and not just put the covers over my head for 4 months, what if I made a goal to do everything, yes I will do it all, I would have to pick ALL of you for best answer than, so thank you all.

Answer 1

Be a friend unto yourself, and you will never feel lonely. You must be a whole person in order to do that, and I know how hard that is at this time of year, as I sometimes feel it very strongly because I am a Single Father and lost my wife 14 years ago, and this is the hardest time of year for me. Somehow, though I soldier on, and if I can do it, I know you can do it too!!! Have a good year little sister, and be well!!!!

Answer 2

We all feel lonely from time to time. I'm married 17 years and I feel lonely because my other half is to busy with his job and my two teenage boys of course have school and their life going which by the way I'm glad. Get a hobby I have a craft room I put together wall hangings. Anyways I'm sure you'll find something.
Or find a friend you can relate to. Don't worry we all go there still.
Merry Christmas and a Very, Happy, Healthy and Safe New Year friend.

Answer 3

unless someone knows your story, how can you expect a related answer? everyone will give you a "generic" advice. it is better to OPEN UP, if you wish others to open up their arms around you in form of a hug / cuddle to make that loneliness go away.

now, here is my standard answer.

Hi, let me state a fact of life to you. We come to this earth ALONE and we leave this earth ALONE. so, quit the fantasy of being amongst cheerleaders all the time. However, human is a social animal and it can't live in a solitary confinement, otherwise you wont' be living in a city. Just respect and help your neighbors, talk to them anything normal and always respect their beliefs without necessarily agreeing with them all. Just be democratic and diplomatic about your life and don't be sad being alone, because everyone else is alone in this world. Those who think they are not, are doing nothing except deceiving themselves as they will find it out in a later stage of their life.

Answer 4

Exercise helps people deal with the daily stress of life better I think. I tend to dive into something that I'm passionate about to forget the loneliness. Being busy helps.

If all else fail, go feed the birds in the park. It'll make you feel better. I promise. Weird but it's very theraputic.

Answer 5

No, I don't think that it is stupid. In order not to feel lonely , you should pamper yourself. Go shopping, get your hair done, nails,pedicure, massage, eye brows arched, hell get a tattoo, talk on the phone, go eat some ice cream, exercise, have sex and get a drink if you are old enough.

Answer 6

Stop thinking that you are lonely. DON'T RUN BEHIND THE PEOPLE WHO DO NOT CARE ABOUT YOU. Never think that `love' will make the difference.
Just find some way to keep yourself busy...books, education, yahoo answer & if you can...take my daughter to you , I will be thankful to you for whole my life. We are the only two members in our family & she drives me toooooooo crazy...!!!
Well...now you know love those who needs it most.
All the best!!!!!

Answer 7

you gotta understand santa is very busy right now....but i can entertain you for a few hours

Answer 8

Get a hobby.

Answer 9

Web Cam and a good fried...:-)

Answer 10

buy a dog.