well. i've liked this guy like forever. and now that we are finally going out. i sorta miss the times we were friends because i could really find things to talk about. now that we are together, i find it really hard to talk to him because im shy. i really like him but i dont want to ruin the relationship because we cant talk to eachother. what should i do?
2006-12-21 14:01:54 · 9 answers · asked by im confused 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Have sex with him. You just need to moan and scream.
2006-12-21 14:03:11 · answer #1 · answered by Sax M 6 · 0⤊ 4⤋
You now have the added "pressure" of being in a relationship. It's easier when you're just friends because you can be yourself and there are no "expectations" of either of you. Now, you're on a different level with different expectations. You've got to decide if you're more comfortable with no expecations--then you go back to being friends. If you want to stay in the relationship, just spell out your expectations! Easier said than done, but my policy is just to be honest with your partner, but more importantly, with yourself.
2006-12-21 14:06:28 · answer #2 · answered by Noonie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
don't worry about ruining the relationship, you need to be yourself and you have to like it and so does he. or else later it will be "you are not the person I married" If you are afraid to let your true colors come shinning through, how is he going to get the chance to meet the real you? just relax and if he likes you , then he likes you, if he don't well then no time wasted being something you are not.
2006-12-21 14:09:28 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES, YES AND YES! If you have no 2 way communication, you have no relationship. Communication is a must in a good relationship.
2006-12-21 14:04:31 · answer #4 · answered by elanabutcher 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first you need to gauge who is unresponsive. i know lots of women who nag an issue and expect a reply. nagging is not a sociable form of communication, everybody hates inappropriate behaviour. communication involves respect, lots of it. it may be that you just need to re-evaluate the respect levels in your relationship, and remember, respect is not something just given, it is two way - practiced and earned. (just an alternative thought).
2006-12-21 14:18:34 · answer #5 · answered by suzanna r 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well good communication is what holds a relationship together, if you don't have that then I don't see it lasting long.
2006-12-21 14:03:30 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
yes
2006-12-21 14:03:41 · answer #7 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah it is.
2006-12-21 14:05:07 · answer #8 · answered by Steph1490 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes thats bad ......... no offence
2006-12-21 14:08:30 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋